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Creating Your Home Away From Home Is An Important Part Of Growing Up And Becoming An Adult

There will always be positives and negatives that come with everything we do, especially living on our own for the first time.


There's no place like home right?

When the word "home," comes to mind, we all have that one place we can think back to. No matter where we may be living at for that certain period of time, home is home, and no one can change that.

There comes a time in our lives when it's time to pack up all your stuffed animals and move out of mom and dad's house so you can finally start living on your own. When thinking about moving out, it can be really overwhelming. For most of us, our whole life our parents have been the ones who took care of us and made us dinner and made sure everything was in order. But now, you are on your own with nobody to blame or count on but yourself.

Instead of waiting until the very last minute to move out of your parent's house, an easier way to get into the groove of things ahead of time is by moving away for college. When I say "moving away," that doesn't mean that you have to move to a completely different state. Moving away for college can honestly mean moving twenty-miles away from your house. But hey, at least you moved out.

You learn a lot with living on your own. You are now the boss of everything you choose to do. There is no one there to stop you, which can be a good and bad thing.

Let me just warn you all in advance though, you will soon start to appreciate everything your parents have done for you once you have to start buying, cooking, and cleaning everything yourself. This teaches you what it means to be responsible and take actions into your own hands.

This isn't your parent's place now, it's yours, and that should mean something to you.

When you move away for college and are basically forced to live on your own, it's a good way to start planning for your future. You start to notice things you never took into consideration before, like money. When we were younger, we always wanted the most expensive toy or the best car, but most of us never thought about the toll it would take on our parents when they bought it all for us. We finally realize that everything has a price tag on it, and sometimes it's just not worth it.

The first year you are at college, you most likely will be living in a dorm. The dorms are a great way to get a handle on things, and find your groove for how you want to live. It will be very different living with one or more other people you barely know when you are used to living with four or five other people that you have grown up with your whole life.

It will take time getting used to, but in due time, your roommate can become your best friend. This is their first time living on their own too, so you're both in this together.

There will always be positives and negatives that come with everything we do, especially living on our own for the first time. It's how we put forth our effort in making this work that will help us in the long run. Yes, it will be weird sleeping in a different room, on a different bed that first couple of nights, but this is part of growing up.

We all wish we could keep having our parents buy us our food, and wish we could know we were coming back to a clean house, but now it is our turn to do the grown-up things, even though we will always be a kid at heart.

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To The Nursing Major During The Hardest Week Of The Year

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.


To the Nursing Major During Finals Week,

I know you're tired, I know you're stressed, and I know you feel like you can't go on. I know that no part of this seems fair, and I know you are by far the biggest critic of yourself. I know that you've thought about giving up. I know that you feel alone. I know that you wonder why in the world you chose one of the hardest college majors, especially on the days it leaves you feeling empty and broken.

But, I also know that you love nursing school. I know your eyes light up when you're with patients, and I know your heart races when you think of graduation. I know that you love the people that you're in school with, like truly, we're-all-in-this-together, family type of love. I know that you look at the older nurses with admiration, just hoping and praying that you will remain that calm and composed one day. I know that every time someone asks what your college major is that you beam with pride as you tell them it's nursing, and I know that your heart skips a beat knowing that you are making a difference.

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that a failed class doesn't mean you aren't meant to do this. I know that a 'C' on a test that you studied so. dang. hard. for does not mean that you are not intelligent. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.

I know that nursing school isn't fair. I know you wish it was easier. I know that some days you can't remember why it's worth it. I know you want to go out and have fun. I know that staying up until 1:00 A.M. doing paperwork, only to have to be up and at clinicals before the sun rises is not fair. I know that studying this much only to be failing the class is hard. I know you wish your friends and family understood. I know that this is difficult.

Nursing school isn't glamorous, with the white lab coat and stethoscope. Nursing school is crying, randomly and a lot. Nursing school is exhaustion. Nursing school is drinking so much coffee that you lose track. Nursing school is being so stressed that you can't eat. Nursing school is four cumulative finals jam-packed into one week that is enough to make you go insane.

But, nursing school is worth it. I know that when these assignments are turned in and finals are over, that you will find the motivation to keep going. I know that one good day of making a difference in a patient's life is worth a hundred bad days of nursing school.

Keep hanging in there, nursing majors. It'll all be worth it— this I know, for sure.

So, if you have a nursing major in your life, hug them and tell them that you're proud of them. Nursing school is tough, nursing school is scary, and nursing school is overwhelming; but a simple 'thank-you' from someone we love is all we need to keep going.


A third-year nursing student who knows

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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