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He's Just Not That Into You

10 tell-tale signs that he's just not as into you as you think he is.

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He's Just Not That Into You

We all have that friend who's been complaining about her crush for months. While most people aren't as blunt as I am, I have no trouble saying, "Maybe he's just not into you."

We've all been there, me included, that crappy place where you like the guy way more than he likes you and you are unwilling to admit it to yourself. While it may suck in the moment, the only thing worse is allowing a guy to treat you any less than you deserve. Listed below are ten signs that he may not be as into you as you think, and that you need to move on. 

1. He only calls or texts you after a night of drinking (sorry girls, but you can't always use the excuse "drunk actions are sober thoughts") .

2. You always have to be the first one to make the effort.

3. When you guys are hanging out, he pays more attention to what's on the TV than what you're saying.

4. He is embarrassed to introduce you to his family and friends.

5. He'll take hours to respond to texts and only have meaningful conversations when he needs something.

6. Whenever you try to reference your feelings for him, he avoids the subject like the plague.

7. If you ask him to hang out, he always invites his friends, so you two are never alone.

8. Plans are always on his terms; your schedule never matters to him.

9. When you ask him to your sorority functions, he always comes up with a lame excuse.

10. Whenever you guys run into his friends, he makes sure to emphasize the fact that you two are JUST friends. 

So stop being those crazy, obsessive girls that guys always stereotype us to be, and realize that he's just not that into you! Because chances are he's not even that hot and you can do 50 times better anyways. 

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