College can be an exciting new experience for some, a liberating one for others, and for a few, straight up hell. Nothing will completely prepare you for the experiences you will have your freshman year of college, but with a few words of advice, I encourage you to make the most of this challenging new part of your life.
First off, be open-minded.
College offers a new level of diversity and enables students to share their past experiences with one another. Accepting new perspectives and ideas allows you to develop and morph your own views. Being open-minded greatly improves your college years.
Never do your homework on your bed.
Ever. My first semester, I always chose to commit to long study sessions while sitting on my bed. Little did I know I would wake up hours later with nothing accomplished. I wouldn't even remembering falling asleep in the first place.
Don’t let your past dictate your present.
When I left for college, many loose ends existed in my hometown. For the first month, I was so concerned about my family and friends’ issues that I became wrapped up in a town I didn’t even live in. Which made my life in college much more troublesome than it needed to be. Navigating life from your past relationships leads to anxiety and stress, so avoid it as much as possible and move on.
Know what you’re getting into.
On the first few days, all campus organizations will try to suck you into joining with hugs, cupcakes, free food, and raffle tickets. Before signing up for every organization on campus, consider what they expect from you in the long-term, preventing stress and frustration down the road. This will only help you down the road.
Try something new.
Now is a time for adventure and self-discovery. Doing the same old, same old may satisfy you, but trying something new may allow you to unravel a new part of yourself. Trying something new can potentially lead you to your destined career path.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Chances are, other people are struggling with the same problems you are. It is always OK to ask for help, no matter how awkward it feels. Don’t let the fear or frustration of asking for help limit your ability to accomplish your goals.
It’s OK to miss your family.
Missing your parents, siblings, and pets are a normal part of moving out for the first time. My first week of college, I talked to my parents on the phone every day. Just remember that no matter how much you miss them, they will always miss you more. You are not alone. Almost every college student misses their family.
Find what works for you.
Out of necessity, every college student needs to discover a systematic balance that works for them. Some students enjoy spending every waking hour on school, work, and activities, while others find themselves spending a large amount of quiet time alone. Some enjoy parties and social outings while others prefer one-on-one movie nights. Organization works really well for certain students while others seek comfort in chaos. Experiment to find what works best for you and pursue it. Finding a good balance will not only make you more efficient as a student, but make your happier in everyday life.
Finally, always do your best.
Apply yourself to the best of your ability in all you do because you never know what may come as a result. Bad practice makes better practice; better practice leads to talent. Perfection is impossible, but by putting in a whole-hearted effort, you can accomplish anything you set your mind to.
