How to Get Over the "I Hate College" Hump
Start writing a post
Student Life

How to Get Over the "I Hate College" Hump

Can it truly be the best four years of your life?

58
How to Get Over the "I Hate College" Hump
netdna-cdn.com

Freshman year of college is like starting a brand new life. You got so used to the past four years at the same school, with your same friends, doing the same things every year. Then, all of a sudden, you’re in a new school where you don’t know anyone, and you’re expected to start living “the best four years of your life.”

Every college student goes through the phase where they wish they could go back home and hide in that tiny little hole that was your comfort zone. Whether you go through it the second your parents leave, a few weeks into school, or during finals week, it’s bound to happen sometime. The good news is that you can get through it! All of the upperclassmen have survived this hump, and you can too.

Just think about how you got adjusted to high school. You found what made you comfortable, and you stuck with those things for four years. Now, you just have to find what those things are again.

If you're hating college because you haven’t made very many friends, get involved. Go to on-campus events. Whether it’s a movie or an ice cream social, you never know where you’re going to find those friends that will last throughout the next four years.

Joining a club is a great way to make friends with people who have the same interests. Almost every major has a club pertaining to itself. If you don’t know what clubs or organizations are offered, or don’t know what they are about, you can easily take a trip to the center for student involvement, and they would be really helpful in guiding you to finding a place where you belong.

If classes are your issue, there is another way to go about solving your problems. If you’re drowning in homework or completely lost in a class, you’re not the only one feeling this way. Every student goes through a class where they have the “if I can get through this class, I can get through anything” motto.

If you have a class or classes like this, you can talk to other students in the class to see how they are doing, and ask if they could explain the things that you’re not understanding. You can also ask the teacher for extra help. Every teacher has study hours, and they make them for confused students like yourself.

If these methods don’t work, there is always tutoring. The school gets students who passed classes with high grades to help other students who are currently struggling in those classes. This can be really helpful because the tutors are from the school, so they know what’s expected out of the class, and they may have even had the same teacher as you.

Don’t let the “I hate college” hump put you down. You'll get over it, and later you'll look back and be glad that you didn’t give up. College has some rough spots, but if you let it, it can truly be the best four years of your life.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

90173
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

62247
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments