As we grow older we continue to experience and get introduced to things we've never imagined. Whether it's for the worst or the better, it makes us who we are. I recently turned 19 and I have come to the realization that I am made up of so much, and not just my personality, but my experiences, downfalls, achievements and the people around me. I have grown so much over the years. I am truly proud of who I am today and I have faith in who I will become in the future because of the lessons I've learned.
1. Family
As a child, I was always with my family because they were all I knew, but after making friends, I noticed that all I wanted to do was hangout with my friends and it made me feel guilty at times because I felt that I was abandoning my family. But I came to the realization that my friends are my family too. Family is not just your relatives, to me family is the people you love and the people that love you.
2. Friendship
From my elementary days to now college, my definition of friendship has changed. I thought friendship was just people you talked to, but now my understanding of friendship is someone that never gives up on you. A true friend is someone that knows your faults and still loves you the same no matter what. A true friend will sacrifice for you and care for your well-being at all times.
3. Comfort zones
It's nice being in my comfort zone which is being at home with my family and friends and living my life like I'm accustomed to. I also think this comfort zone is boring after a while. I believe that in order to live life to the fullest, you must take risks and do things that make you uncomfortable. Why? Experience leads to discovery of oneself. For example, if you're not the type to dance, then I would recommend taking a dance class because maybe you'll discover that you love dancing!
4. Distractions
As a college student, I am starting to make important decisions for myself and creating goals for the future which means I have to stay focused on that journey. Yes, life is full of glitter and gold, and it is OK to have fun and enjoy it, but I think it's crucial to always remember where you're going.
5. Values
Over the years, we will meet people and be introduced to new ideas, but you must hold tight onto your core values in life. With that said, it does not mean that your values can't change. As long as your values are truly what you want them to be, you will be content with who you are. Having strong values will keep you grounded in life and will help you avoid big distractions that can hinder achieving your goals.
6. You
Lastly, is you. When it comes to making decisions for yourself and setting goals, make sure they are in your favor. It's easy to let your friends and especially family reputation influence what you choose, but I say that it's important to make decisions based on your own needs and desires. In the end, those decisions will only affect you. Along with life's long journey and goals, make sure you are focusing on your self-development and stability because those are important when it comes to your happiness.
