So, you're about to graduate. You're out (of the closet) and proud and ready to do this thing. But are you, are you really ready? Here are some things to consider before you take that walk with your cap on:

1. Check out if your local organization has graduation regalia accessories.

Does your LGBT Resource Center have rainbow cords? Does the GSA nearby have pride flag pins? If your identity was discovered in the college setting, I would highly recommend checking out accessories for your regalia. Or, custom order your own.

2. Make sure you have good party favors for your after-commencement party/dinner/dinner party.

I personally recommend Black Trans Lives Matter pins for your goodie bags.

3. Practice your answers to all the questions

"Where's your significant other?" "That outfit?" "That cord doesn't match your gown, why wear it?" "Why use so much glitter on your cap?" "What's that degree going to do for you?"

4. While you practice that, practice your walk away from that stage.

If your school is like mine and has a jumbotron display the graduates as they walk away with their diploma, you just can't normal human walk. You gotta sissy that walk.

5. Hug the people who supported you being your most authentic self through this journey.

Being authentic can sometimes be the hardest part, but honey, you did it!