All my life I have been around all kinds of women. My best friends have always been the show stoppers when they walk into the room. However, my experience knowing plus size women have been nothing shy of authentic. I learned my confidence from a big girl, my perseverance from a big girl, my boldness from a big girl, and understood my self-worth from a big girl.

It's a shame society for so long has made plus size people feel so unworthy of love when they deserve the complete opposite. I am so pumped when I see curvaceous women making a stand and fighting back. This is my contribution to express my appreciation for the fat girl community and I hope people out there continue to join the bandwagon.

1. They are sincere.

2. They are bold.

3. They are patient.

4. They are great listeners.

5. They love really hard.

6. They will do what it takes to feel beautiful and sexy, no boundaries.

7. They are fun to be around.

8. They work hard alongside you and are very supportive.

9. They know how to get money.

Now surely this does not apply to all of the big girls. But spotting the ones who have these characteristics is easy to identify. You would see it in their walk and in how they dress and carry themselves. Big girls a lot of times can be an open book. Who cares what your boys think, they lonely and/or miserable tails should not dictate what brings you love and happiness. So get you one and live happily ever after.