In the days leading up to Thanksgiving, I could say it was the first time ever I really thought about what I’m thankful for. It didn’t even take a full semester of college to realize what I had that I was so grateful for. In some ways, I think it was the separation from home that made me think like this.

So, when my whole family gathered together at the Thanksgiving dinner table, and of course, we had to go around and talk about what we’re thankful for, I actually had something to say. Generally, when it’s my turn to talk about what I’m thankful for, I take what everyone else says as cliche and try to crack a joke about the whole ordeal. This year, given the changes I’ve experienced in the past two and a half months, I had an actual reason to be thankful. I gave my whole family a genuine message that could barely scratch the surface to all the things I’ve learned to appreciate.

I am thankful for my family and their support. When I was nervous about the idea of leaving home for a long period of time, my family was there to tell me it was okay. When I moved into my dorm for the first time, my parents were there to help me. Now, I am by myself almost a thousand miles from home, but I never feel alone. I can always call anyone in my family, no matter the subject, and they are always friendly and supportive. I never thought simple phone calls home would make me feel so comfortable at school.

I am thankful for the way my family raised me. I grew up on such values that teach that are so detrimental to my personality now. Being away from from my family gave me an opportunity to see how I am on my own. Through most of the times I’ve been in a tough position, I just think “what would my parents do?” and it almost always leads me to making a good decision.

I am thankful for the additional support I receive from extended family/friends. I can’t believe how many people, whether it’s my grandparents, parents friends, or my friends, that have reached out to me since I’ve left. The fact that I get so much support from people that are so far away from me really tells me what I had before was great, and that I’m never really alone.

I am thankful for the school I go to and the opportunities I’ve had so far. Had I not gone to Michigan, there’s no telling how difference my experience would have been. I have been fortunate to find my group of friends as well as embark in some extracurriculars such as the Men’s Glee Club. Who can tell if I get the same chances anywhere else.

And lastly, I am thankful for a smooth adjustment to college life. I have been able to find such a solid group of friends, something I was assured by who but my parents right before I left for school. I’ve learned to really appreciate my friends as well as all the time I’ve spent with them. I feel supported by them, which gives me a real sense of belonging even when I’m away from my family at home.

Now that I’ve been out of my comfort zone for almost an entire semester, I’ve managed to feel more comfortable than ever. The reasons for this can only be the result of what I learned before I traveled a thousand miles away from my home. So when I thanked my family on Thanksgiving about they’ve been able to help me with my transition to adulthood and college life, words alone could not do my thank yous justice.

On a holiday where you learn to appreciate what you have, I historically have taken the opportunity to thank my friends and family for granted. Now, as a full-time university student, I have a perspective that I never thought I would have unless I moved a thousand miles away. I'll continue to feel thankful for my support system everyday, like everyone should be this past holiday.