From birth, we’ve created goals to accomplish. For example, attending college and graduating, receiving free Chick-fil-A sandwiches for life, or traveling the world until you pass out. Usually, in the process of making goals, the aspiration is carefully thought out. However, currently, the distinction of recognizing goals in society has been misunderstood and getting out of control. Here are a few popular #goals that need to #end.

I understand until the world ends we will continue to fight for who has the award-winning best friend relationship. Unfortunately, this cannot be simply fulfilled with a cute caption and 5 hashtags. #BestfriendGoals pictures like the one above can attest that we just focus on proving our successes rather than enjoying them since cutting people off is more popular than keeping essential friendships.

Although I’m not in a relationship, I can recognize that relationships are sacred and significant. As a single person, I don’t believe a picture of throwing a pie in each other’s faces displays true love and affection. I am not denouncing occasionally posting pictures of your girlfriend/boyfriend but showing you have matching shirts, socks, and necklaces does not show loyalty or respect.

Applying this concept to celebrities can be explained as labeling Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith future relationship goals. In a June 2015 interview with Howard Stern’s SiriusXM show, Jada loosely confirmed that she and Will are in an open marriage. Being in an open marriage means both partners can engage in outside sexual activity without being regarded as infidelity. Aside from this explanation, people still praise their relationship as a targeted ambition.

Looking at other #goals posts, people have made their goals into infatuations and now have made different categories for them. In the future, if you decide to let your followers know what your goals first establish if this dream is noteworthy.