Twas the Holiday Season and all through the town, people ran about frantic as if scared of a clown. All the stores were decked with holiday cheer in hopes that customers soon would appear. The children were hopeful for toys and fun games, dreams of hover boards, Lego's and dolls filling their days. And Mom with her shopping cart and Dad wearing his hat had no time to rest, not even a nap.
When out in the store there arose such a clatter, people turned their heads round to see what was the matter. When what to their wandering eyes should appear, but two nasty people with absolutely no cheer. They berated the cashier, they yelled at the lines, they called to the manager names with no rhymes. More rapid than eagles, their insults did come; store employees shed tears of hurt, feeling dumb.
And then in a twinkle they heard on the roof, the prancing and stomping of Santa’s big boots. He’s here they said smiling; he’ll see what you’ve done. The nasty people took a pause, fearing the end of their fun. But soon they discovered it was only the wind, and Santa would never see how the customers had sinned.
So before you go shopping for your holiday table, please remember to be kind to others whenever you are able. Not everyone is as blessed as you are this year, and it's times like this when you can spread some Christmas cheer. In case you've forgotten how to be kind to a stranger, here are some tips, to avoid being a danger.
When out and about on your holiday trips, take time to extend a polite move of the lips. It’s a thing called a smile; I know you can do it. Just pucker right, show your teeth and get to it! It’s the best way to show that you have a good soul; it will help you remember to make kindness a goal. Don’t worry if sometimes people don’t smile back, we all have our days when we’re slightly off track. Just do your part to help make the world a little brighter and I promise if you do, your soul will feel lighter.
It’s always important to ask about others. "How are you?" is a question you can ask friends, strangers and mothers. And just because someone claims to be good, great or fine doesn’t mean they don’t need you to help them in time. Learn to listen and care for your neighbor or cashier, because people are people all doing life here.
I know that you think things must always be your way. But remember that others are also sharing today. As you stand in a line, park your car in a lot; remain as calm and cool as the ice cream you bought. Employees don’t make prices; managers don’t have all the answers. Give some grace to all people and be a life enhancer.
As you make your final purchases and leave the big box stores, take time to say thank you to those doing their chores. To the bag boy, the janitor, to the boss and the temp, extend a word of gratitude, for the time you’ve been lent. I promise they’ll remember, look up and be surprised. They might even wave back as you make their day a prize.
That tip jar just sitting atop that big counter is not merely for decoration, or as your change discounter. The money that’s placed in that clear plastic cup might be someone’s food, gas or electric hook-up. Don’t pretend you’re above them; don't look down on them in pride. Tip them a dollar or ten and watch their eyes get big and wide. If you’ve been blessed this long year by God or by luck, take the time to pay it forward, just give them one buck.
So remember to always be kind in this season, to give and to love with no need of a reason. Cherish the days with your family and friends, and make someone feel special before this time ends. You know not the battles people face this year, so use you blessings for good, and give away all your cheer.
