10 Reasons Having a Girl Friend Can Be Better Than Having A Girlfriend

10 Reasons Having a Girl Friend Can Be Better Than Having A Girlfriend

Sometimes having a strong relationship with someone doesn't always require dating

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Girl Best friends are a blessing that not many guys seem to take advantage of. I'm definitely amazed by how much mine has affected my life and she knows she can rub it in my face whenever she gets the chance. But the question is, why is it great?

1. Better Advice

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Girls actually know what other girls like. If you're looking for ways to impress a potential other, they're probably one of the first you should ask.

2. Jealousy? Not a Problem

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They understand that hey you have other people you care about they're not going to feel jealous just because you don't spend every second with them instead of others

3. They get when you need space

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You ever notice how there can be a space between "girl" and "friend?" but when it's girlfriend its pushed together? Girl best friends can understand the concept of "Me Time" more than anyone. This being the opposite of jealousy, they don't crave your every moment of attention.

4. Texting back? Take as long as you need

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This pretty much goes hand in hand with the last two. Not everyone is on their phones nonstop texting, we have this magical thing called reality. So Girl best friends won't get mad if you take longer cause they get it.

5. Be Yourself Homie

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Dude, we all have our guilty pleasures. Your best friend just wants you to be happy no matter how girly of a habit you could have, strut your stuff and be you boo cause they won't judge.

6. You don't have to worry about what it is they want from you!

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Bro, we have all been there. You can't decide where you go out to eat because she wants the one thing from 5 different places, and if there is something she wants, she won't tell you what that is because she thinks you should know her well enough to know. Or, even worse she won't tell you what is bothering her. Best friends don't worry about that and will say what is on their mind because they feel as friends you won't leave them. So no more pulling out the guessing game.

7. Looking good? Now you can look fly!

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Sometimes us guys Just aren't the fashionistas we think we can be. The pants we think goes with that top? THEY DO NT GO WITH THAT TOP! You want to dress to impress? Ask your girl best friend, she'll have you look sharp.

8. You gain a sense of maturity.... WHICH YOU MIGHT NEED!!!

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You ever notice how when girls are around you tend not to make the same immature jokes you would around just your boys? Guess what? That's your conscience telling you to grow up and stop making yourself look stupid. Trust me, You'll thank her later

9. You get to meet all of her friends

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I really shouldn't have to explain this, but if I must... You're her best friend so everyone probably already hears how great of a guy you are. You want the hookup? You'll get more than that with her as a wingman.

10. Best friends last longer

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You don't have to worry about breaking up. You're friends If either of you decides to pursue someone else you still end up telling each other every detail and it's fine. Just enjoy what it is that you have

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To The High School Senior, It's Not All About College Applications

Finish strong, be mindful of your needs, and live in peace.

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I wish I could have said this all last year, that you will never have it as easy as you do right now. It's the end of the road for childhood and you're wondering what else do I do with my life now that I'm going to college? It's a mix of emotions and feelings that are hard to process. My goal is telling you this is the year to do everything fun and live like you haven't before. This doesn't mean skip school on the daily and get bad grades(it matters until the end because of college).

But above all else, don't let college applications define your year. People think applying to college is the story of what happens senior year(which is mostly true but I promise that is not the only thing that matters). There is so much more to life than college applications and laughing how everyone becomes depressed their last year from being around the same people. If I could tell myself last year, it would be this:

First, it would be to not argue with people at all. This last year is simply too scared to fight and argue with people over nothing. Do your best to be kind to everyone and not cause problems for other people. Everyone deserves to have a nice senior year.

Second, enjoy being able to live in your own room and not share with anyone else. Once you get to college there's going to be a lot of unnecessary noise that you sort of get used to living with.

Next, do not take an abundance of college classes. They're only going to help you but so much and you're not going to want to do the work anyway. Don't be one of those people who does this and doesn't feel the need to have a social life. It's no joke, recognize you're human and be mindful of your needs.

In addition, there is no such thing as a perfect school. Every school has its flaws and most of the time when people say yes, they're saying yes to the marketing campaign the school has. There is a large difference between the marketing campaign for the school and actually living there. It's always good to go to your top school and tour a second time so you know what definitely fits you.

Most importantly, do not be too consumed in your cell phone and pretend that you don't care about anything. That's like a lame childish response pretending you don't have feelings. And for those that still think this is the way to go, I can't wait until you take a sociology class and learn about how humans are dependent on one another.

Appreciate everything mom and dad have done for you. Do not fuss about what is put on the dinner table, and instead be grateful that they took their time to prepare a meal for YOU. Nothing compares to mom's home-cooked meals. Because that dining hall food can really mess you up.

You will be working the 9-5 all day every day. There will be more work, you will be stressed out about reading around 300 pages of material per week, and have the stress of having two tests as the only semester grades.

Lastly, you will actually have to adult for the first time ever in college and find what keeps you motivated. It's not a hand holding game with constant support. You have the opportunity to do a lot by yourself but also with others.

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5 Things Everyone Should Know When Making Self Love A Priority, As It Should Be

Basically, all you need is self love.

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Basically, all you need is self love. Self love should be your number one priority, so, here are things to know about self love.

1. Self love is not always easy.

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Although, self love should be self explanatory with the words alone, there may be some individuals out there who do not clearly understand the meaning because they have never been taught how to love themselves. The definition of self love is the love of oneself. In the beginning, loving oneself can be a hard process and doesn't happen overnight. Acquiring self love can take months, years, or even a person's entire lifetime to develop. However, once a person finds self love they will realize what they have been missing their entire life.

2. Accepting yourself, it’s truly ok to be different.

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The very first thing that you need to learn about self love, is to accept your flaws which can be difficult for some people in the beginning. But what you have to look at and understand is that those little imperfections makes you who you are. Everyone in this world is beautiful and handsome in their own way, and it's really okay to be different because in a world full of Cheerios, it's boring, so why not spice it up by being a fruit loop instead.

3. Practicing self care.

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Practicing self care, how do we get there? Self care is essential to preserving your own mental health. When you are feeling down and out about yourself or the negative things in society that may be affecting you, here are some tips to practice self care:

  • Remove yourself from negative environments
  • Avoid individuals who causes stress
  • Take breaks from electronics and social media
  • Meditate to strengthen your mind
  • Try painting or drawing to relax your mind
  • Try listening to music / dancing
  • Take a break and go outside to get some fresh air
  • Go on a little shopping spree and treat yourself on occasions
  • Relax to scented candles
  • Try having a discussion with your family and/or friends

4. You don't need anyone else to make you happy.

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Many people have been programmed to believe that they need someone in their lives in order for them to be happy, which is not accurate. To be honest, you don't need anyone else, you only need yourself. As my mother always used to say "You have to love yourself first, before you can love someone else," and she's right. Until a person truly understands what it means to make themselves a first priority before searching for a partner then they will struggle with self love. The reason I say this is because if you don't love yourself then how will you know how to love someone else? That is the million dollar question.

5. Knowing your worth.

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The golden rule is "Knowing your worth is key to loving yourself." If a person have confidence in themselves then their self-esteem will be higher. If self-esteem is present then they will not allow other people to treat them in a negative manner. Therefore, they are practicing self care/self love.

I want you to make it your number one priority to find your self love, then go out there in the world and love. One day you will find your soulmate who will cherish you for who you are, and they will love your imperfections as much as they love you. Otherwise, don't settle and certainly don't accept anyone who doesn't respect you because your life is a precious gift and should be treated as such.

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