"It's complicated". We hear this from our friends when we ask about how their relationships are going. But what does it even mean? Is it being that "on and off" couple we see on Facebook arguing 24/7? Or is it silence, and faking happiness while wanting to be single again? Sometimes we tend to enter relationships just for the "thrill". The constant arguing, make up sex, and roller coaster of emotions make us want more. Being in a "complicated" relationship can seem like a high every time we send that risky text, or get back together once again. We crave the mixed emotions and having someone to always go back to. But to the girl who is in one of these relationships, eventually its going to get old. Those feel good chemicals you get from him coming back will eventually wear off. Love should be easy. It shouldn't be fighting for a text back every time they are mad at you, or silence for days until one of you caves in, starting the cycle all over again. Love should be a constant flow of communication, not leaving you begging for them once again. That's not love. What's the worth of being with someone who "maybe" sees a future with you, or talks to other girls every time you're on a "break". Crying and wishing for the wrong person? Watching him go every time he has "plans" in the morning that don't include you? No. To the girl who is in a "complicated" relationship right now, please block him on all social media and start new. Go work out, take a class, get a new job, anything. But don't keep going back to the person who keeps hurting you. It's not complicated, he's just not the one.The one for you wont even give you a chance to feel insecure.The right relationship should make you feel the opposite of what you feel right now, and every time he disappoints you. The word "complicated" in itself is just that, complicated. One of the words love shouldn't be. The right one won't leave.