I myself have never been a doormat type of girl, because I realized that I'm much better than a doormat, and truthfully, every woman is. I'm not saying that I'm a dream girl, but I like to think that I've changed for the better and have a lot of confidence in myself. Over the past few years, I've learned what qualities guys find attractive and look for in a woman. These tips have helped me to make better connections, and even got some guys to be more attracted to me. This is not to say that I "play guys" or use "tricks" to get guys; I just grew into a sophisticated young woman, and happen to have these qualities. I'm not saying you have to change who you are or that this will guarantee a guy to like you. I'm simply saying if you would like to have better connections with guys, this article might help you achieve that.

• If the dream girl acts like a prize then she’ll turn him into a believer; it is her attitude about herself that a man will adopt.
• If she starts out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get; the dream girl shows that she's not afraid to be without him.
• When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.
• If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom; always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.
• If a woman makes a man wait to sleep with her, he’ll see her as more beautiful and take more time to appreciate who she is.
• Dream girls don’t talk about the relationship too much; talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.
• When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem.
• Dream girls aren't afraid to stand up for themselves or speak their mind. It will not only earn his respect, but in some cases it will even turn him on.
• Dream girls have to show that they won’t accept mistreatment; then they will keep his respect.
• Dream girls are adventurous; they aren't afraid to try new things and experience something different.
• Dream girls don't let him see them sweat; in heated situations, they keep their cool and don't overreact.
• A dream girl maintains a sense of humor; he wants to be able to joke around and feel fun and comfortable with her.
• Dream girls place a high value on themselves; when complimented, they say thank you with a smile.

Once again, there is nothing wrong with being who you are right now. Every woman should unapologetically be herself and be confident in who she is, because you are someone's dream girl. To learn how to be a better dream girl, pick up a copy of "Why Men Love B*tches" by Sherry Argov.