When you are in college, it could be hard to keep in contact with your high school friends. However, making new friends is always a possibility. Some people I have come across have been there for me as if they known me for years instead of just two.
Sometimes you share more than you have ever expected with somebody and click immediately. That's a friend worth keeping; however, there have been people who have not figured out what social cues means in a conversation or simply just come off rude. If you want to be my friend, these are the DO’s and DON’Ts.
DO NOT call me on late nights. Everyone that knows me, knows I either work all day, or I am doing last minute school work. I do not like distractions. However, if it is a catastrophe or if the world is about to end... I WILL work something out. I am a friend who is always there for my friends. Just try and choose an hour before 10 p.m.
DO NOT vent. I understand some people need someone to vent to. By all means, I am all ears. BUT, if you just talk and do not ask ME how I am doing... it doesn't work like that.
Friends are there for each other. It should not be one-sided... I am not your therapist! I especially do not like when people come to me for relationship advice and they refuse to get out of a toxic relationship. If you cannot take my advice, do not come back to me to talk about your problems.
DO NOT talk to me behind my back. People talk and people love drama. It will always get back to me. I do not have sympathy for people who can’t respect me. One time you cross me and expect to be out of my life.
That leads me to... DO NOT think your life revolves around mine. I will not switch personal plans just for you. As friends, we work with each other to find a perfect time to meet up. Be reasonable.
Lastly, DO NOT think my other friends are your friends. I have had friends who have, on social media, friend-requested my friends whom they don't even know. If we are friends, get to know them first.
DO try and be there for me. I love it when my friends and I get coffee or just catch a movie. My friends are the best group of people and from all different places. I've met people in school or at work. It is a good idea to get close to people who you see daily. It makes transitions easier and places become more of something you look forward too.
I have tried over the years to filter out the negativity in my life. I am trying to live my best life. Positivity is a beautiful trait. Surrounding yourself with people who enjoy themselves and love you for you is a beautiful experience. If you cancel out the negative you are guarantee to be left with the positive. Love yourself and those around you.
