After Months Of Knocking Tinder, I Finally Found The Perfect Match

After Months Of Knocking Tinder, I Finally Found The Perfect Match

Swipes right on Mr. Right.


My journey with a little dating app called Tinder has been a long and mostly unrewarding one. Filled with fuckboys, nice boys, creepy boys, and worst of all, fuckboys disguised as nice boys. I constantly felt bad for using Tinder. Feeling like I was a lonely loser for even having an account, even though I knew several people who used it and even met their significant others on it. But on the other hand, I'm a hopeless romantic and felt that if Tinder would help me find the true love, then so be it. Needless to say, I was at war with myself.

During this war though, I got a myriad number of new Snapchat contacts, hooked up with a few duds, and went on two underwhelming dates. Part of me was hopeless, thinking that maybe all I would ever get was a meaningless hookup, and another part of me was optimistic, thinking that if I didn't give up, I would eventually find the perfect match.

Then it happened.

It was late May and I had just completed my first year of college, which was a lot of fun but a roller coaster of a year none the less, so I decided I would chill and not focus on boys during the Summer. Then, of course, I started swiping again. Being back home, I encountered boys I went to high school with, and I died a little. But I was bored and looking for love so I continued to swipe, swipe, swipe until I matched with a cute, sweet, really nerdy, film major. He was totally my type. And apparently I was his because he messaged me right away. We started flirting and I started noticing that he was looking for the same thing I was: an actual relationship. He asks me to meet up with him. I actually wanted too, but was too afraid to go out on a Tinder date at home and have to run it by my parents.

So I stopped talking to him.

The boy kept trying to snap me but I wouldn't really answer. I was also afraid that he was just another creep from Tinder. So, we had something of a falling out. I learned later that he was devastated when I stopped talking to him, and I wish I hadn't. But hey, every love story needs a little depth.

After talking to a couple other Tinder guys and having it go nowhere, I started to feel alone and more pessimistic than ever. I was starting to think that maybe I would never meet a boy who legitimately cared about me and actually wanted to be my boyfriend, not just hook up with me.

Then my friend and I went to the beach together.

I took a selfie and posted it on my Snapchat story. I didn't think much of it, really, I just posted it and went along with the rest of my beach day. Then, just as my friend and I are about to head home, I get a Snapchat that boy from Tinder I stopped talking to saying:

"Hey Annie, I know you're not really talking to me anymore but I must say you look absolutely stunning."

And the rest was history. We started talking again and this time I realized that he was actually the guy I had been looking for all along. From actually talking to him, I saw the kind, sensitive soul that he was, I could tell that he wanted to take me out and treat me with respect and dignity, just like a princess. I worked up the courage to talk to my parents about meeting a guy from Tinder and they were very supportive.

The boy and I go out on a date and he's just as lovely in person as he is in texts. We go out again and again. He asks me to be his girlfriend. I say yes.

So, after almost a year of swiping left and swiping right, I finally find the perfect match. All the turmoil Tinder caused me is suddenly worth it. Because without it I wouldn't have found the man I love and who loves me for me.

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I Blame My Dad For My High Expectations

Dad, it's all your fault.

I always tell my dad that no matter who I date, he's always my number one guy. Sometimes I say it as more of a routine thing. However, the meaning behind it is all too real. For as long as I can remember my dad has been my one true love, and it's going to be hard to find someone who can top him.

My dad loves me when I am difficult. He knows how to keep the perfect distance on the days when I'm in a mood, how to hold me on the days that are tough, and how to stand by me on the days that are good.

He listens to me rant for hours over people, my days at school, or the episode of 'Grey's Anatomy' I watched that night and never once loses interest.

He picks on me about my hair, outfit, shoes, and everything else after spending hours to get ready only to end by telling me, “You look good." And I know he means it.

He holds the door for me, carries my bags for me, and always buys my food. He goes out of his way to make me smile when he sees that I'm upset. He calls me randomly during the day to see how I'm doing and how my day is going and drops everything to answer the phone when I call.

When it comes to other people, my dad has a heart of gold. He will do anything for anyone, even his worst enemy. He will smile at strangers and compliment people he barely knows. He will strike up a conversation with anyone, even if it means going way out of his way, and he will always put himself last.

My dad also knows when to give tough love. He knows how to make me respect him without having to ask for it or enforce it. He knows how to make me want to be a better person just to make him proud. He has molded me into who I am today without ever pushing me too hard. He knew the exact times I needed to be reminded who I was.

Dad, you have my respect, trust, but most of all my heart. You have impacted my life most of all, and for that, I can never repay you. Without you, I wouldn't know what I to look for when I finally begin to search for who I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it might take some time to find someone who measures up to you.

To my future husband, I'm sorry. You have some huge shoes to fill, and most of all, I hope you can cook.

Cover Image Credit: Logan Photography

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