As a second-year teacher in North Memphis, I'm beginning to understand the fine line between educator and mentor. With an ever-increasing emphasis on the Common Core, it's easy to believe my job description has one line and one line only: deliver the standards as quickly and effectively as possible. But most teachers know that outside of robotically delivering a laundry list of standards, we also have a responsibility as role models and community leaders. For example, in a class comprised entirely of students of color, I'm an ambassador of white culture.

So no, my contract doesn't include a section on "encouraging young women to be strong, independent leaders and thinkers." That task is implicit in the profession, and it's made more difficult by the fact that it must be completed almost entirely through modeling. It's this dilemma that has inspired the following list.

1. I'm sorry for enforcing a sexist dress code. Your body is not a danger to anyone else's education. I'm sorry I asked you to button up your cardigan. #freethenipple

2. You don't have to whisper the word "cycle." We don't need to be ashamed of the things our bodies do. And anyone who makes you feel that way should probably think long and hard about where he came from.

3. It's okay if you're having sex. But you need to understand the risks and educate yourself. Lord knows Tennessee won't do it for you. Oh and it should always be consensual. Don't use your sexuality to manipulate others.

4. Birth control is free. Yes, free. Not just condoms, either. And you can get it confidentially, even as a minor.

5. Sexuality isn't a multiple choice thing. I know I give you a lot of multiple choice tests, but please know that the world is an incredibly complex place that can't be condensed into two or four or even five options. People create binaries to feel safe. So when they ask you "gay" or "straight," "male" or "female," "democrat" or "republican," "black" or "white"--

Just know that "None of the above" is always an answer.