1. People will come and go in your life, and that's okay.
I've lost quite a few friends during my 19 years. Whether it is because we didn't get along well or maybe we just lost touch. My parents have constantly told me during break ups with boyfriends or arguments with friends that people will come and go in your life, and that it's okay. Maybe they weren't meant to permanently be in your life. Everything happens for a reason.
2. Remember where you come from and know your roots.
I am originally from Virginia and my family is scattered across the country. The majority of my family hails from the great state of Alabama. Ever since I enrolled at The University of Alabama, I have learned so much more about my family here, and I have met some family members that I didn't even know I had. I am thankful for each and every one of them. I wasn't born in the south, but I got here as fast as I could.
3. Care for others just as much as you care about yourself.
Growing up, my family was involved in a program where we would host orphans from Ukraine in our home. These girls came from nothing and didn't have a family like I do. I am glad my family was involved in this program because it has taught me some lifelong lessons. It has taught me to look at things through other people's eyes, and it has allowed me to see how truly lucky and thankful I am for everything I have in my life.
4. Always look presentable and be on your best behavior no matter where you are or what you are doing.
My parents have always made it clear to me that I should always look presentable and be on my best behavior. My parents tell me this because you never know who you may see or meet while out and about in town. You may meet your future employer, and if you are dressed in sweats and a t-shirt, then that will not leave a good first impression.
5. Know that your parents will always be the ones you can count on.
Like I said before, people will come and go in your life. On the other hand, your parents will always be there. Your parents should be the ones you can trust the most because they are your family. You can always count on your parents being there whether you need their advice or to bail you out of jail (let's hope that will not happen).
Thanks Mom and Dad for always being the best that you two can be. I know I can be a stubborn and money-spending college kid, but thanks for always being there for me no what it is or when it is.
Thanks Mom and Dad for being my rock.
