First Concerts Are The Best Concerts

First Concerts Are The Best Concerts

They are the ones that you will never forget.

Have you even been in a place where you could literally feel your heartbeat surrounding you? Have you ever been in a situation where your body becomes one with the people around you? It’s one of the most intense experiences you could ever have. One that will stick in your memory for years to come. One that will probably change your life forever.

On one of the greatest days of my life in 2012, I got a Facebook message from a friend saying the band that I've loved for six years was coming to Syracuse, New York — at a venue a mere 15 minutes from my house. I will admit, I cried when I got the news. The sun shown brighter, the grass was greener and my entire world was turned upside down. There was a chance that I'd be able to see those four guys I'd loved for so many years. It was the chance of the lifetime, and I wasn’t going to give that up.

The only thing that was in my way was my mom and dad. Since the concert was on a school night in the middle of Syracuse, which isn’t the best place to be, I was not too positive they'd let me go. However, after a full night of begging and playing the songs for them so they'd recognize the fact that I've been a fan for so long, they said yes. I was pretty sure that I had died and gone to heaven.

Finally, the day had arrived. On March 1, 2012, my best friend Claire and I got into my dad’s car, shaking with excitement, ready for our first real concert. This first concert was completely foreign from what we were used to.

Just from standing in the cold waiting to enter the open-floor venue, I was hooked. There were people casually chatting and waiting for the concert to begin, the stage was so close to us, the huge speakers were emerging from the walls and the ceiling, the smell of stale beer surrounded us — it was all absolutely perfect. It was something that I never wanted to stop experiencing.

The floor started getting a little more crowded once it got time for the opening performers to come on stage. People starting to pack into the much too small space to attempt to get closer to the bands. The first band came out, and the whole room erupted into noise. There was screaming and singing from both the crowd and the band, the speakers were blaring and it felt like there was noise surrounding us. It was a type of loud that you could feel. You could feel the beat with your body; you could feel it coursing through your soul.

That band played for about an hour, and then there was a small break as the sets were changing. People started to dissipate, which allowed room for air to get in. It’s hard to notice the lack of breathing room during the moment, but the second there was a hole in the crowd, Claire and I were able to breathe in fresh air and get ourselves prepared for the next band coming on soon.

The second band came on with very little time to react to what was about to happen. Apparently, a lot more people were excited about this band than the first one because immediately as they started playing, Claire and I were shoved closer to the stage as the entire crowd pushed forward. As we were trying to wrap our heads around what was happening, we heard the band yell the infamous phrase, “Open it up!” That phrase brought very different emotions among the crowd.

I’m not sure Claire and I were prepared for the circle that was about to open in the middle of the floor, but what we did know is that we didn't want to be a part of it. We saw an opening before the mosh pit really got going, and we pushed through and got right to the front of the floor. We were about four rows of people away from the stage, and it was amazing.

The second band finished playing, and the circle closed up. Claire and I started to get more excited about the fact that we would be seeing our favorite band members after years of listening to their music and preparing for this moment. We anxiously looked around us. People were starting to get louder, the music playing while the stage was being turned over started to get quieter, and suddenly the lights went out.

The introduction to the song “Time-Bomb” erupted, and people from all over the floor started to lose it. Alex and Jack jumped out onto the stage, and the crowd around us exploded into screams and shouting. Rian and Zack come out after to take their places. The venue became one of the coolest atmospheres I’ve ever been in.

For nearly two hours, I was able to see my favorite band perform my favorite songs live. I was able to be amongst hundreds of other fans that were just as passionate about this band as I was. I was flooded with emotion because this concert, this moment in my life, changed how I would view music forever.

After two encores and an announcement that this concert was the longest one they have ever performed, they left the stage. The crowd started to thin out as people were laughing and talking at a slightly louder register as their ears were ringing from the bass. Claire and I looked at each other, ecstatic. This day was one of the greatest days in our lives, and we would be able to talk about it for years to come.

When I finally got home, I laid in my bed, waiting for sleep to come over me as I was still reeling about what had just transpired. Smiling, I rolled over and drifted into sleep knowing that this day, seeing All Time Low, was one that I would want to repeat over and over again.

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To The Boy Who Will Love Me Next

If you can't understand these few things, leave before things get too involved

To the boy that will love me next, I need you to know and understand things about me and my past. The things I have been though not only have shaped the person I’ve become, but also sometimes controls my life. In the past I’ve been used, abused, and taken for granted, and I want something real this time. The guys before you were just boys; they didn’t know how to treat me until it was too late. They didn’t understand how to love me, until I broke my own heart. Before you truly decide to love me I want you to understand these things.

When I tell you something, please listen.

I’m my own person, I want to be loved a certain way. If I ask you to come over and watch movies with me please do it, if I ask for you to leave me alone for a few hours because it’s a girl’s night please do it. I don’t just say things to hear my own voice, I say things to you because it’s important to my life and the way I want to be loved. I’m not a needy person when it comes to being loved and cared for, but I do ask for you to do the small things that I am say.

Forgive my past.

My past is not a pretty brick road, it is a highway that has a bunch of potholes and cracks in it. I have a lot of baggage, and most of it you won’t understand. But don’t let my past decided whether you want to love me or not. My past has helped form who I am today, but it does not define who I am. My past experiences might try and make an appearance every once in a while, but I will not go back to that person I once was, I will not return to all that hurt I once went though. When I say those things, I’m telling the complete and honest truth. I relive my past every day, somethings haunt me and somethings are good reminds. But for you to love me, I need you to accept my past, present and future.

I’m just another bro to the other guys.

I have always hung out with boys, I don’t fit in with the girl groups. I have 10 close girlfriends, but the majority of my friends are guy, but don’t let this scare you. If I wanted to be with one of my guy friends I would already be with him, and if you haven’t noticed I don’t want them because I’m with you. I will not lose my friendships with all my guy friends to be able to stay with you. I will not cut off ties because you don’t like my guy friends. I have lost too many buddies because of my ex-boyfriends and I promised myself I wouldn’t do that again. If you don’t like how many guy friends I have you can leave now. Don’t bother trying to date me if you can accept the fact I’m just another bro.

I might be a badass, but I actually have a big heart.

To a lot of people I come off to be a very crazy and wild girl. I will agree I can be crazy and wild, but I’m more than that. I’m independent, caring, responsible, understanding, forgiving, and so such more type of woman. Many people think that I’m a badass because I don’t take any negatively from anyone. Just like we learned when we were younger, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all.” Most people can’t do that in today’s world, so I stick up for myself and my friends. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me, or their option on how I live my life. The only thing I care about is being able to make myself happy. Even though I’m an independent woman, understand that I do have a big heart. Honesty when I truly care for someone I will do just about anything they ask, but don’t take advantage of this. Once you take advantage of this part of me, all respect will be lost for you.

I’m hard to love.

Sometimes I want to be cuddle and get attention, and sometimes I don’t want you to talk to me for a couple hours. Sometimes I want you to take me out for a nice meal, but sometimes I want a home cooked meal. Every day is different for me, sometimes I change my mind every hour. My mood swings are terrible on certain days, and on those days you should probably just ignore me. I’m not easy to love, so you’ll either be willing to find a way to love me, or you’ll walk out like so many others have.

I’m scared.

I’m scared to love someone again. I’ve been hurt, heartbroken, and beat to the ground in my past relationships. I want to believe you are different, I want to hope things will truly work out, but every relationship has always ended up the same way. I’m scared to trust someone, put my whole heart into them, just to be left and heartbroken again. I sick and tired of putting my whole body and soul into someone for them to just leave when it is convenient for them. If you want to love me, understand it won’t be easy for me to love you back.

When “I’m done.”

When I say “I’m done” I honestly don’t mean that I’m done. When I say that it means I need and want you to fight for me, show me why you want to be with me. I need you to prove that I’m worth it and there’s no one else but me. If I was truly done, I would just walk away, and not come back. So if I ever tell you, “I’m done,” tell me all the reasons why I’m truly not done.

For the boy who will love me next, the work is cut out for you, you just have to be willing to do it. I’m not like other girls, I am my own person, and I will need to be treated as such. For the boy that will love me next, don’t bother with me unless you really want to be with me. I don’t have time to waste on you if you aren’t going to try and make something out of us. To the boy who will love me next, the last thing I would like to say is good luck, I have faith in you.

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