How To Deal With Negativity | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

I Asked 30 Young Adults How They Fight Negativity And Now I'm Ready To Suck The Poison Out Of My Life

Negativity is toxic and we need it out of our lives.

56
https://images.pexels.com/photos/863977/pexels-photo-863977.jpeg?auto=compress&cs=tinysrgb&dpr=2&h=650&w=940

In This Article:

One negative thought can infect an entire mood and when negativity builds up, it becomes poison.

Remove negative thoughts from your life with 30 different ideas from people just like you, dealing with negativity.

1. "Journal about the negative thoughts and feelings you have and rationalize those thoughts" - Female, 22

2. "I read my Bible, talk to my mom, and text my best friend" - Female, 20

3. "Uh, I don't know. I think I just deal with it by hanging out with my friends." - Male, 18

4. "I drive in my car and literally just talk out loud to Jesus." - Female, 31

5. "Walk around the neighborhood and jam out to some hard rock. It gets me amped and makes me feel like I can take on anything." - Male, 33

6. "I learned that a lot of the negativity comes from my own mouth so I try and catch it and make it into something positive. Oh, also gossiping, I try to stop that." - Female, 24

7. "You need to surround yourself with people that just get you. People who aren't trying to tear other people down all the time." - Male, 27

8. "Go read a book. Seriously, just escape from everything and read a book. Try and stay negative when you're reading." - Female, 27

9. "Prayer! That is seriously the only thing that works for me. I like it when other people pray for me. I mean it's hard to ask for prayer but it definitely helps to have someone else there." - Female, 23

10. "I paint or try and let myself be more creative. There are activities where I'm in my own thoughts and activities where I express those thoughts. Expressing it is a lot better than keeping it all to myself." - Female, 23

11. "I'm the most negative person in my life. I need to just learn to shut off my mind because it just keeps going," - Male, 23

12. "Tattoos. I get tattoos, design tattoos for friends. I don't know why, it just works." - Male, 25

13. "I sleep. It may not be the best coping mechanism but it is what it is." - Female, 22

14. "Go to the gym because you don't understand what endorphins will do for you. It's really just the adrenaline rush of it all." - Male, 28.

15. "Run on an actual track, not a treadmill." - Female, 21

16. "I write positive and motivating sayings on post-it notes and put them up wherever I know I'll see them." - Female, 33

17. "Get coffee with a friend or family member. Someone who will just listen." - Female, 31

18. "Unplug from social media. I am at my most negative on social media with all the comparison and likes or dislikes. It's just too much." - Female, 19

19. "End the toxic relationships that are causing the negativity. You will feel so much better afterward." - Female, 32

20. "Find your people. You can tell them what's going on or don't, but just BE with them." - Male, 22

21. "I start calling on the negative people and tell them to stop or get out of my life. It's a hard task, but necessary." - Female, 22

22. "I scope out what's causing it and then I just take a step back from it. If it's work, take a vacation. If it's family or friends, take a break." - Male, 28

23. "I haven't really figured it out yet. I'd like to say that I just recognize my negativity and stop, but it's hard." - Female, 25

24. "I have a girls night out and try and forget it for a while." - Female, 21

25. "When negativity gets too much, it's probably because I'm not spending enough time with Jesus. So yeah, I try to fix that." - Male, 24

26. "I'm not sure if I'm doing it right so when you figure it out, let me know." - Female, 24

27. "There's an app that notifies me every morning with motivational quotes. I can't say that helps but I think starting the day off with some positivity should be the trick." - Female, 23

28. "I stay home and wallow in it for a little bit before I kind of evaluate and adjust to whatever it is I need. Sometimes I'll work on my novel to escape or sometimes I confront it by talking to my sister about it," - Female, 23

29. "Diffuse essential oils and hope it works. I'm not completely sold on it, but it's not getting any worse." - Female, 30

30. "I pray but I write my prayers down. I guess it's journaling but it's me directly asking God for guidance. Writing is therapeutic and God's guidance is everything else." - Female, 22

However you choose to do it, negativity needs to get out of your life. It's toxic and it affects your mood, your relationships, your living, etc. but don't settle for temporary fixes.

GET RID OF IT!

Read your Bible, talk to God, spend more time with positive people, and do whatever it takes to suck out the negativity for good.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

625320
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

518203
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments