Feelings and Facts
Start writing a post
Relationships

Feelings and Facts

Do we know reality?

39
Feelings and Facts
antiquelilac

Does feeling it constitute it as fact? Does emotion make it real?

Perspective differs from one life to the next, and that is because no two stories are the same. Experience changes perspective which alters reality.

My story, my background, my culture, my ethnicity, my passions, my memories, and my language all skew the images set before me. I see the world through a different lens than anyone else- my lens. My lens is bent and cracked by pain, mended by the adhesion of accomplishment over adversity. My lens is tinted by memories and feelings attached. My lens magnifies that which meant the most in my memories. My lens has been cleansed by tears that have revealed truth. My lens is ever-changing and never ceases to exist. It portrays and skews and reveals according to what it has already seen.

My lens retains information and feelings and then projects these feelings into each and every situation that occurs again in front of them. My lens is my reality. Your lens is yours. And since no one has the same lens, and since it is difficult to control how your lens perceives and projects, do any of us know reality?

As mentioned before, lenses can be changed; however, it is hardly an instantaneous action. Changing lenses takes a tedious process: recognition of your lens' current state, mending of any deep cracks or a complete replacement of the glass depending on the extent of the damage, a refitting of the frame to be sure your foundation is secure, and finally refocusing your actions to the new way of viewing life.

One must be careful to protect their lens while also keeping an open mind to change. The greatest dangers are either being so flexible that your lens can fall off and be swapped by anybody or being so narrow-minded that your lens never changes at all. A lens is a way to experience life and since experience changes perspective which alters reality, each of our lenses control our reality.

Does feeling it constitute it as fact? Does emotion make it real?

It is real; everything we experience, every feeling and emotion we race through is authentic and has reasoning, but this does not mean the way we see life is the ultimate reality. Always protect your values, be open to change, and be gracious to the fact that others' lenses will never be the same as yours.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

105339
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments