Fall break...Is That You?

Fall break...Is That You?

5 Reasons I'm excited that break is finally in arm's reach.

This is the week that I have been waiting for ever since I moved back on campus. This Friday is the start of a well deserved and much needed break. I am so thankful for this opportunity. School has been so busy and I am excited to chill and not have academic responsibilities for a little bit. The following reasons are what I am looking forward to most when I go back home for a few days.

1. See my family

I have not seen my family for about two months. They are greatly missed. It is always nice to be reunited with them.

2. Eat a home-cooked meal

I am always one to want to eat out all of the time. Being away from school makes me very appreciative of home cooked meals. I am tired of the repetition of the meals that my school's dining services provide.

3. See friends from home

I talk to them quite often, but we haven't seen each other since the summer! I'm looking forward to hanging out and catching up with my close friends.

4. Have a good night's sleep

I am ready to sleep in my own comfortable bed without the disruptions of noisy neighbors who think it's okay to not be considerate of other people's sleep.

5. Shower without shoes

This is what I'm looking forward to the most. Showering with shoes gets annoying after a while!

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

SEE ALSO: To The Girls Who Float Between Friend Groups

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