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Erasing The Negativity

Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day.

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Erasing The Negativity
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I'll be the first to admit that my biggest flaw has always been the fact that I'm a natural pessimist. Sometimes I try to excuse this by saying I don't want to have my hopes up for something that could turn out badly, but in all honesty, it's just my human nature to see the bad side of things first.

My pessimistic attitude is something I try to improve daily. However, I know I'm certainly not the only one guilty when it comes to being negative. Just take five minutes to scroll through your Facebook or Twitter feeds - notice how the people that have something nice to say or post about how great their day was typically don't get nearly as many likes, favorites, etc, as those who post the exact opposite. Whining and complaining is apparently the way to go if you're really desperate for attention nowadays.

I see plenty of those with the positive perspective I want to have being ridiculed on a daily basis. It seems as if society has a huge issue with someone choosing not to dwell on the bad, particularly teenagers and young adults. As college students, most of us are frequently told by our elders that we need to prepare ourselves for the "real world" since it's not nearly as fun or exciting as we think it is. But, see, a huge problem comes with that. Yes, life isn't fair. Yes, being in the real world is certainly difficult. But tell me, how exactly does dwelling on the negative side of things make this any better?

Here's the shocking truth: it doesn't.

A quote I came across while outlining my ideas for this article states, "Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day." If we expect to make it through the hardships in life without feeling overwhelmed or miserable, then choosing to repeatedly concentrate on the negatives isn't an option.

Being a college student isn't easy. Classes are hard, and sometimes, keeping your head up is even harder. But just think about finally getting your degree or that job you've always dreamt of. Choosing to focus on ideas such as these will make your college career much more bearable than thinking that school could possibly be the death of you.

So, try to work on the pessimistic attitude. (Easier said than done, I know, but it is possible.) Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate. And remember that even the slightest bit of positivity is a very powerful thing.

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