At The End Of The Day, Do You Like Who You Are?

At The End Of The Day, Do You Like Who You Are?

When we're old and gray, we'll be thinking about who we were and not what we wore.


Imagine a situation where you are faced with an opponent, someone opposite from you, staring you down. Looking into your eyes but pretty much into your soul. They see you. They know you.

They are you.

It's a mirror.

We face this scenario every time we look into that shiny, chrome, reflective surface. But how often do we actually look at it? At ourselves? Do we ever look past the surface to see what lies underneath all the outer stuff that doesn't really matter one bit? When we're 80 years old and sitting on front porches in those cute porch swings or sitting in a la-z-boy by the fire, we surely won't be reminiscing on the clothes we wore in college. Or how we did our hair or which brand of shoes we wore because they were in style that year. More likely, we'll be thinking about who we were. What kind of people we were, deep down, as we walked into this crazy world without having any inkling of what the future would hold.

When I'm sitting on that porch, maybe with a sweet dog at my feet, and my cute husband (if you're out there, man, hi nice to meet you) on the swing next to me, I hope that I will be proud of who I was. Of what type of person I was and who I became. Though the common phrases yolo and no ragrets (lol) are life mottoes, they also aren't always leading us towards the best decisions, I'm sure. No ragrets doesn't make up for the fact that you got into a twitter fight, sorry. It's always better to be kind. Kind to others, kind to yourself. Kindness truly makes the world go 'round, not that weird gravitational pull or whatever, obviously.

At the end of the day, do you like who you are? If not, that's okay. There is time to become who you are capable of becoming. We all can work towards being kinder people, and towards making sure the world is a better place when we leave it. When you look in the mirror, I hope you see someone strong and passionate and kind. I hope you smile at that reflection, flash a big thumbs up, and brave the day.

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A Letter To The Tomboy I Used To Be

To that girl with the baseball hat, board shorts, and grass stains, thank you.

To the tomboy I used to be,

Thank you so much for making me the strong, beautiful, determined, and badass girl I am today. I am proud of who you've become. It is because of you that I can stand on my own two feet. It is because of you that I am not afraid to stand up for what I believe in. And for that, I am eternally grateful.

You were never easy to deal with. Mom and Dad had a lot to handle growing up. It was Dad who had to fight for you to be able to play boys' baseball. It was Mom who had to stand up to the boys that were mean to you for playing a boys' sport. It was both of them who had to cart you around to all of your games and practices, because playing one sport a season was just not enough. It was Mom who had to wash your clothes endless times, because the grass and dirt stains would never come out the first time. Don't ever forget who helped you become who you are.

Your attitude and thought process is very different from that of most girls. You grew up dealing with your problems through wrestling or fighting. Pettiness was not something you could deal with. Your anger came from losing a game, not drama with girls. You didn't understand why girls fought, or were so mean to each other, and to this day, you still don't understand it. You are different. You aren't like most girls by any means, which can be difficult for you, even now. You are so much tougher. You think differently. You are determined.

I love who you turned into. You are so strong; you handle everything with such passion and grit, that I can't help but thank you. Thank you for pushing yourself, and for not letting anything or anyone get in your way. The boys were mean sometimes, and the girls talked about you, but that never fazed you. That chip on your shoulder only made you strive even harder for greatness.

Thank you for making me unique. Thank you for making me extraordinary. Thank you for making me, me.



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Self-Reflection Is Always Beneficial

Always ask yourself how you can improve your life.


Self reflection is an important part of growing up. It is important to sit back and think about who you are and who you strive to be. I think that dwelling on the past too much can be extremely harmful, but that a little bit of reflecting on your past can be great.

Think about it, every choice you have made in your life so far has led to where you are now. Every single choice, no matter how small it may have seemed, has had a major impact on your entire life. The choices we make definitely change the path that we take.

Most likely, every friend you made changed your outlook something. Every place you went to will remain in your memories. Maybe you experienced something because of certain choices that led you to learn a valuable lesson.

Maybe those dreadful things of your past needed to happen to allow you to grow. No one deserves to hurt, but sometimes hurting then healing can be replenishing.

I think we should value our lives because they are so unique. No one on this earth will have had the same experiences you have. Even if someone was following you around 27/4 or was literally joined at the hip with you, they would not have the same life as you, because their thoughts would be different from yours and their perspective would be different as well.

You will never get the same day twice, so it is important to make every day the best you can make it. Try to laugh in stressful situations. Try to breathe when there seems to be no air left for you. It is vital to keep moving forward. If you look back, you'll trip on everything in front of you. Do not look into your past and examine your mistakes negatively. We grow from mistakes. We live and we learn. Use those mistakes as a study guide to become a better you. Use your past to your advantage and try to give yourself a better future.

It is important to know that life is a roller-coaster with twist and turns, peaks, and sudden drops that will make you feel sick to your stomach and scared for what's waiting at the bottom. But if you fear life, you will never enjoy the fun parts.

Look back and examine yourself but don't write a novel about your mistakes. Move past them and live a better life. Spread love, be kind, and be grateful for what you have overcome. Those hurdles you went through have only made you stronger.

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