There always comes a time in someone's life where they feel like they regret a specific relationship with someone, whether they are your relative, friend, or significant other. Most of the times, I like to be civil and give them another chance. My reasons will always change based on who the person is and how I perceive them.
One of the first reasons I have for giving someone another chance is the happy memories I shared with them. I would never think of cutting someone out of my life for no reason. There always is a reason. It is the way most people think when they make these decisions. There are always certain people who will always screw you over and you will think long and hard before bringing them back into your life. You have to evaluate if your life is better with them or without them. The joyous moments you shared with them could help you decide if you want to give them another chance.
Another reason could be how much time you have known them. Sometimes people like to think that time has a factor in if they are worth giving another chance. I like to see if the time I spent with that person impacted me in a positive or negative way; only then, will I see if I want them to stay in my life.
My final reason for deciding if someone is worth giving another chance is if they truly feel sorry for what they did, assuming you broke ties with them. If it was unforgivable, then it may be difficult to give them another chance. However, if you just grew apart and you want to reconnect, then a second chance may not seem like a terrible idea.
Second chances are always a touchy topic. It can either bring back wonderful memories or some that you wish never entered your mind. The amount of people that you give a second chance can either help or hurt you. We all learn from our mistakes, but every person is different. Do not stop giving second chances to people just because one person may have screwed you over. Second chances are meant to give people another chance. In the end, don't we all deserve a second chance?
