Was ist Dirty Talk und woher kommt es?

Was ist Dirty Talk und woher kommt es?

Dirty Talk beinhaltet das Gespräch über Sexualakte mit Ihrem Partner in einer expliziten, erregenden Art und Weise vor oder während der Teilnahme an Sexakten.

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Während es nichts "Unordentliches" oder "Unreines" daran gibt, hat es den Spitznamen wegen der grafischen Natur des Dialogs verdient, der typischerweise mit schmutzigen Reden verbunden ist. Für viele ist es ein effektiver Weg, um das was man im Bett will auszudrücken & auszuprobieren. Laut einer neuen Studie im Journal der Sozial- und persönlichen Verhältnisse genießen außerdem Leute, die Zeichen der sexuellen Kommunikation in Form von Dirty Talk. Machen Sie es sich bequem und lassen Sie ihre versauten Gedanken freien Lauf! Dirty Talk ist nicht nur leichtfertiger Spaß, es kann auch Ihr Sexualleben verbessern.

Jessica Drake, ein Pornostar und Gründerin des "Guide to Wicked Sex", sagt, dass es sogar als Teil des Einwilligungsprozesses funktionieren kann. Wenn Sie vorher auf eine sexy Art und Weise nach z.B. Stellungen fragen, können Sie sicherstellen, dass Ihr Partner Ihnen grünes Licht gibt, diese zu tun.

Ein Beispiel:

"Hey, Baby, gefällt es dir, wenn ich dich dort berühre?"

"Ooh, ja!"

(Dies ist noch ein sehr harmloses Beispiel)

Wie wendet man Dirty Talk an?

Dirty Talk ist nicht jedermanns Sache. In der Tat kann es sehr unangenehm sein, wenn Sie sich nicht wohl fühlen, um potenziell krasse Worte für Körperteile zu erwähnen oder ehrlich darüber sind, was Sie im Bett wollen. Aber es ist eine Fähigkeit, die man erlernen kann laut Tina Horn, eine Expertin für Dirty Talk, die Workshops zu diesem Thema leitet. Außerdem ist Sie die Autorin von Sexting: The Grownup's Little Book of Sex Tips for Getting Dirty Digital.

Horn bemerkt, dass die erste Frage, die man ihr bei Dirty-Talk-Workshops stellt, folgende ist: "Wie mache ich Dirty Talk, ohne dumm zu klingen?" Ihr zufolge ist dies das Beste, um das Dirty Talk zu beginnen: "Ich will dich" oder "Ich liebe es, wenn du....". Partner möchten wissen, dass sie und ihre Bemühungen geschätzt werden. Sie stellt auch eine Liste von Wörtern zur Verfügung, um sich im Bett zurechtzufinden: "Komm", "Ficken", "Hart", "Nass", "Ja", "Nein", "Jetzt", "Langsamer" und "Schneller", "Schwanz", "Klitoris", "Mund", "Arsch". Stellen Sie aus diesem "Vokabular" Phrasen zusammen und sehen Sie, welche sexy Kombinationen Sie sich ausdenken können.

Eine andere Strategie, die vom Sexberater Dan Savage populär gemacht wurde ist es, deinem Partner zu beschreiben, was du mit ihnen machen wirst. Zum Beispiel: "Baby, ich werde auf dich klettern und dich so hart reiten".

Variationen von Dirty Talk:

Viel Kommunikation findet heutzutage praktisch über SMS, Telefonate und Social Media statt. Die Dirty-Talk-Richtlinien, die Sie verwenden würden, gelten im Allgemeinen auch für Sexting, welches die Praxis des Sendens von sexy Nachrichten oder Bildern an jemanden über Ihr Telefon ist. Heisse Frauen verführen dich beim Dirty Talk über Telefonsex Portale. Hierbei kann man sich für preisgünstige Kosten mithilfe von Dirty Talk, aufgeilen lassen. Die Telefonsex Akteure sind Experten und wissen ganz genau, was Sie geil macht und richten sich ganz nach Ihren Bedürfnissen.

Zum Schluss verdeutlicht Horn Ihre Ansätze mit der wichtigsten These: "Sagen Sie genau das, was Sie meinen und seien Sie nicht vage. Sicher, ist ein "Ich vermisse dich" Text sehr nett, aber wenn Sie Lust haben Ihre Hände auf den Arsch Ihres Partners zu klatschen, dann sagen Sie das!"

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Somehow, I Ended Up With The Best Roommate Known To Man

I've truly been blessed.

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College can be a very stressful experience to prepare for. From orientation to selecting your classes for the semester, your responsibilities quickly pile up. On top of all that, you also have to find somebody who you will be sharing a room with for your first year of college.

After not sharing a room with my sister for several years, I was worried about going back to splitting a living space with someone else. Immediately after I finished submitting my application to finalize my commitment to Temple, the stress of finding a roommate sunk in. Rooms in the residential hall I wanted were filling up quickly, and I still didn't have a roommate.

I was trying to find a roommate, but everybody seemed to already have their living situation figured out. However, one day, I received a message from a girl named Tori. Little did I know, she would become my best friend. I saw her profile prior to on RoomSync, an app for finding roommates, so I was really excited when she messaged me.

We didn't meet until move-in day, which made me a little bit anxious, but right from the start, everything clicked. We have lots of similar interests and living standards. Even though our majors are totally different, hers being biology and mine is English, that didn't stop us from being friends and enjoy spending time with one another.

In just the first weekend, Tori discovered that I hadn't seen a lot of movies that I should have seen growing up. From that point on, she created a list of various movies, and every weekend we watched at least one movie together. I don't think she has shown me a movie that I haven't liked yet, and I'm so glad that we started this tradition.

On top of movies, Tori has also expanded my music taste, which is a very hard thing to do. I couldn't be happier that she introduced me to Dean Lewis and Noah Kahan and then persuaded me to go to their concert in October with her. In general, she has got me more into music and is increasing my knowledge about music overall.

As well as going to a concert together, we also recently went to see my favorite Youtubers when they came to Philly. When we found out that Cody Ko and Noel Miller were going on a comedy tour and coming to our city, we immediately planned to buy tickets. It was a night full of laughs, and I'm so happy I got to spend it with her.

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Having a random roommate who is also your best friend is rare. I've heard a lot of horror stories about random roommates, but I honestly can't picture not being friends with Tori. Along with being an amazing roommate, she is incredibly selfless and caring. Her focus is always on helping people, and I admire her for all the hard work she puts into everything she does.

Being surrounded by people in the College of Science and Technology, I know it isn't easy. Because I have a strong dislike of science, I give major props to Tori and her friends in CST. I'm so happy she is studying something she's truly passionate about and will love doing in her future career. Whenever I meet people that want to pursue a career in science or the medical field, I immediately give them immense credit. It's extremely difficult to take that career path, and I'm already excited for Tori and her ultimate success.

College is a time for making new friends that will last even after you stop going to school together. Even though I'm only in my second semester, I know I can trust Tori with anything, and she'll be there for me when I need her. I also know that she'll be 100% honest with me when I need guidance or advice.

I cannot even begin to express my gratitude to Tori for messaging me to room with her. My college experience has been incredibly positive thus far because she has been with me through it all. I'm extremely grateful for the way things worked out because I couldn't have asked for a kinder roomie.

Thank you, Tori, for not just being an incredible person and roommate, but my best friend as well.

P.S. I can't wait to bake with you in our apartment together next semester!

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