Dear Dementia, You Should Be Arrested For Stealing The Mind Of Someone I Love

Dear Dementia, You Should Be Arrested For Stealing The Mind Of Someone I Love

My mee-maw has been struggling with the effects of Dementia for as long as I can remember. She is 90 and she is the light of my family's world. Dementia you suck for trying to steal her from us.


Dear Dementia,

How dare you be so cruel, eating the minds of the people we love? You cause the people we love to forget us and ultimately themselves. It is so hard to look my Mee-Maw in the eyes and witness her everyday struggle just to remember. A task that the healthy minded takes for granted. How could you steal the mind of such a kind-hearted and strong woman?

Mee-maw has always had such a huge part in my life. I remember before you stole her mind, before you made it hard for her to complete even the easiest of tasks. I remember when she used to part my hair in the morning time, now we help her brush her hair. Mee-maw used to cook for the whole family when I was little and now she can barely hold a fork. She used to wake me for school when mom was at work, now she sleeps until noon. It is frustrating to watch her struggle because of you, Dementia.

Why do you think it is okay to steal the memories right out of her mind? Most days she cannot even put a name to my face. My own grandmother cannot even remember my name because of you! Do you know how much that hurts me? It hurts my entire family. My mother and aunts, exhausted with caring for their mother who barely knows who they are. My cousins and I try to help when we can, but our adult lives make it hard. Dementia, I do not believe you know what you have done.

I hate that the last of my memories with my Mee-maw will be of her in a constant state of confusion. She does not deserve this, and neither does my family. I could not imagine how frustrated she is with you, Dementia.

I could not imagine not remembering the last activity I carried out or the last time I ate. She must be so angry with you, even though she doesn't know who you are. But I know who you are. You are an evil disease. No one deserves to go through what you have put my Mee-maw through. You have wrecked havoc among my family and so many families all over the world. According to there are 47.5 million people living with dementia worldwide. I pray that there are neurologists researching how to stop you, Dementia.


Meghan Kiehl

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To The Grandmothers Who Made Us The Women We Are Today

Sincerely, the loving granddaughters.

The relationship between a grandmother and her granddaughter is something so uniquely special and something to be treasured forever.

Your grandma loves you like you are her own daughter and adores you no matter what. She is the first person you run to when you have a problem with your parents and she never fails to grace you with the most comforting advice.

She may be guilty of spoiling you rotten but still makes sure to stress the importance of being thankful and kind.

Your grandma has most likely lived through every obstacle that you are experiencing now as a young adult and always knows just exactly what to say.

She grew up in another generation where things were probably much harder for young women than they are today.

She is a walking example of perseverance, strength, and grace who you aim to be like someday.

Your grandma teaches you the lessons she had to learn the hard way because she does not want you to make the same mistakes she did when she was growing up.

Her hugs never fail to warm your heart, her smile never fails to make you smile, and her laugh never fails to brighten your day.

She inspires you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

You only hope that one day you can be the mother and grandmother she was to you.

A piece of girl’s heart will forever belong to her grandma that no one could ever replace.

She is the matriarch of your family and is the glue that holds you all together.

Grandmothers play such an important role in helping their granddaughters to grow into strong, intelligent, kind women.

She teaches you how to love and how to forgive.

Without the unconditional love of your grandma, you would not be the woman you are today.

To all of the grandmothers out there, thank you for being you.


the loving granddaughters

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To my wonderful best friend to kick off our summer together!









All the glorious roles you have held in life.

Always wearing a smile with lipstick covered lips.

With your blonde short hair.

And glasses covered eyes of blue.

All the wonderful characteristics that make up you.





Just casually cruising through this thing called life, with the best sidekick by your side.

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I love you so much even though you love me more!

Simply because you're the big to my little.

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Adventures after adventures.

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