Dear High School Christian Girls, Know These 6 Things

Dear High School Christian Girls, Know These 6 Things

In a world full of fakes and copies, live of life of uniqueness with the one who created you to be set apart.

Dear High School Christian Girls,

We live in a world that feeds off fake. But we were created by One who desires us to live differently. We have the ability to live with freedom, and not let what others say change that. Here are a few things that will help you live the life you were created to live.

1. It’s okay not to fit in.

It is okay not to be like the other girls. It is okay not to dress like the other girls. You were given a mission far beyond society’s norms. Also, why fit in when you were created by the Creator of the Universe to be different. It is okay to stay home on the weekends, and take some you time. You won’t ever regret spending time with the Lord. So, if you weren’t invited to that popular girls’ party, remember you live a different life.

2. Stop looking in the mirror and trying to fix something that God created perfectly.

You are uniquely created in the Image of God, and every piece of you is perfect just the way it is. There is nothing wrong with trying to be healthy, but do not let the devil make you believe you have to change the weight on that scale to be prettier. And girl, pimples are just a part of teenage life. Yes, I know they suck!

3. Surround yourself with wise people.

Okay, this is easier said than done, but pray for God to place healthy, godly relationships in your path because those are the kind of friendships that will carry you through the ups and downs. They are friendships that will strengthen your faith, and allow you to become a light inside your school walls. You were never meant to go through life alone, but your relationship with Jesus, and your purpose is far too important to walk around with toxic people that will lead you to make toxic decisions.

4. You do not have to be in romantic relationship.

I know it will be hard watching other girls be “happy” with their boyfriends, but the truth is, they are searching for love anywhere they can find it. You have a relationship with someone who has everlasting love to give you. When you experience an encounter with God, that love will flow through your veins. Jesus pursues you on a daily basis, and wants your heart to be directed toward him until He knows a relationship will not distract you. Unless the Lord places somebody directly in your path, there is nothing wrong with waiting.

5. Find godly mentors to help you through some of the greatest, and most challenging times of your life.

High school can either be a turning point in your faith, or you could follow your peers as they search for acceptance. It’s everything anybody wants, yes. But if you just tapped a little further, and unleashed God’s heart in your life, you will learn that you don’t need to feel accepted by the world. You carry the acceptance everybody wants.

6. Don’t be afraid to step outside of your comfort zone.

God will push you beyond your normal to allow your faith and trust in Him to grow. Be ready to stomp Hell out of your school, and be the example your high school so desperately needs. Be the new normal.

Lastly, You are beautiful. Everything about you is beautiful. The things that you have or will accomplish in high school add to the beauty you carry inside of you, but they do not define who you are. You are not defined by those accomplishments. You are beautiful because your heart is. Don’t lose your identity in grades. Those grades that you’re are trying so hard to acquire are important, but they do not produce your identity by their outcome.

We all have a higher mission to accomplish than the one society wants us to follow. So face your fears, chase your dreams, and love like Jesus.

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I Am A College Student, And I Think Free Tuition Is Unfair To Everyone Who's Already Paid For It

Stop expecting others to pay for you.


I attend Fordham University, a private university in the Bronx.

I commute to school because I can't afford to take out more loans than I already do.

Granted, I've received scholarships because of my grades, but they don't cover my whole tuition. I am nineteen years old and I have already amassed the debt of a 40-year-old. I work part-time and the money I make covers the bills I have to pay. I come from a middle-class family, but my dad can't afford to pay off my college loans.

I'm not complaining because I want my dad to pay my loans off for me; rather I am complaining because while my dad can't pay my loans off (which, believe me, he wants too), he's about to start paying off someone else's.

During the election, Bernie frequently advocated for free college.

Now, if he knew enough about economics he would know it simply isn't feasible. Luckily for him, he is seeing his plan enacted by Cuomo in NY. Cuomo has just announced that in NY, state public college will be free.

Before we go any further, it's important to understand what 'free' means.

Nothing is free; every single government program is paid for by the taxpayers. If you don't make enough to have to pay taxes, then something like this doesn't bother you. If you live off welfare and don't pay taxes, then something like this doesn't bother you. When someone offers someone something free, it's easy to take it, like it, and advocate for it, simply because you are not the one paying for it.

Cuomo's free college plan will cost $163,000,000 in the first year (Did that take your breath away too?). Now, in order to pay for this, NY state will increase their spending on higher education to cover these costs. Putting two and two together, if the state decides to raise their budget, they need money. If they need money they look to the taxpayers. The taxpayers are now forced to foot the bill for this program.

I think education is extremely important and useful.

However, my feelings on the importance of education does not mean that I think it should be free. Is college expensive? Yes -- but more so for private universities. Public universities like SUNY Cortland cost around $6,470 per year for in-state residents. That is still significantly less than one of my loans for one semester.

I've been told that maybe I shouldn't have picked a private university, but like I said, I believe education is important. I want to take advantage of the education this country offers, and so I am going to choose the best university I could, which is how I ended up at Fordham. I am not knocking public universities, they are fine institutions, they are just not for me.

My problems with this new legislation lie in the following: Nowhere are there any provisions that force the student receiving aid to have a part-time job.

I work part-time, my sister works part-time, and plenty of my friends work part-time. Working and going to school is stressful, but I do it because I need money. I need money to pay my loans off and buy my textbooks, among other things. The reason I need money is because my parents can't afford to pay off my loans and textbooks as well as both of my sisters'. There is absolutely no reason why every student who will be receiving aid is not forced to have a part-time job, whether it be working in the school library or waitressing.

We are setting up these young adults up for failure, allowing them to think someone else will always be there to foot their bills. It's ridiculous. What bothers me the most, though, is that my dad has to pay for this. Not only my dad, but plenty of senior citizens who don't even have kids, among everyone else.

The cost of living is only going up, yet paychecks rarely do the same. Further taxation is not a solution. The point of free college is to help young adults join the workforce and better our economy; however, people my parents' age are also needed to help better our economy. How are they supposed to do so when they can't spend their money because they are too busy paying taxes?

Free college is not free, the same way free healthcare isn't free.

There is only so much more the taxpayers can take. So to all the students about to get free college: get a part-time job, take personal responsibility, and take out a loan — just like the rest of us do. The world isn't going to coddle you much longer, so start acting like an adult.

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Writing Saved My Sanity

Write it all down when you can't talk to anyone.


I love writing.

I have since elementary school, and I've dreamed of becoming a published author. I started off writing stupid plays in elementary school, then it grew it almost writing a full-blown novel in middle school. I have no idea where that thing went to. It was all notebook paper and bad writing. In high school, my writing was kinda pushed to the side so I could focus on school. When I entered college, I started writing small poems about my now ex-boyfriend.

I was scared to express myself to him sometimes, the intensity of my feelings for him scared me. So instead of telling him, I wrote them down. When I tried to share them with him, he hated it. He thought writing down feelings was weird and creepy. So I didn't share anything else with him. When we finally broke up for good, everything just poured out of me. What I couldn't express verbally, I wrote or typed out.

I always have ideas flowing through my head. They never cease and I wouldn't want them to. Writing gives me an escape, from stress, work, school, or fights. It gives me a place to vent and to be open with everything. This is a reason I love writing for Odyssey, not only has this place brought me amazing friends but revived my love for writing. I'm never without my notebook anymore, I'd get distracted in class by an idea and have to write I think then and there.

I love sharing my more personal writing with close friends, especially my poems as of late. I found that I have a voice for young women who find themselves in a toxic relationship much like mine was. I want to speak out and show them that you can grow from the bullshit. It may take some time, but you will be better.

Writing saved my sanity. It allows me to express myself without having to use my actual voice. Anyone who knows me, knows I hate public speaking. I tend to psych myself out leading up to it. My current projects include writing for Odyssey every week, I'm in the process of trying to continue my short stories, and I'm excited to announce that I'm currently working on my very first poetry book!

Writing has given me so much, and I'm so looking forward to making a career out of something I love so much.

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