Dear Ex,
We were together a long time, but not as long as most. I only have to think this was a good thing, and I will tell you why. I’m over it. I’m over the pain you caused me, I’m over the drama that was our relationship, and I’m over you just in general. But I do have to thank you. Thank you for showing me that I deserved better. Thank you for allowing me to know exactly what I want in a relationship. I believe that every person that comes into our life is there as a learning experience.
We weren’t meant to be together, and I hope that you realize that. Sure we had wonderful moments and memories. We shared a million laughs, but it only showed that we may only have been better as friends. And that is okay.
Not every relationship is going to be absolutely storybook. It takes hard work and unconditional love to get through the many trials that each relationship may face. I will admit that I gave up too easy, but with you pushing me away, it all became too hard and I wasn’t sure if I felt that it was worth it.
We just didn’t click. We didn’t fit anymore. It made me feel more like I was drowning in emotions and blame than in love and respect.
Do I still think about you sometimes? Sure. I think about the moments, both good and bad, that shaped me into the person I am today. I came out of our relationship that much stronger and I can honestly say that I am happy now. So thank you. Thank you for allowing me to realize how truly capable I am.
From,
Your Ex