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Dear Christian Guys

Stop. Us Godly girls are behind you 100%.

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Dear Christian Guys
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Dear Christian Guys,

Before we get started, I just wanted to say Hey, it’s your sister in Christ. I am writing to tell you that I support you guys. I know it cannot be easy to stand up for what you believe or even show the love of Christ to everyone you come in contact with. But I promise there is huge group of Christian sisters fighting with you!

I know you may think that there are no "Godly" girls out there that are right for you… But I am here to tell you that you’re wrong. We are not as outspoken and sometimes we fall in the background, because we do not catch your attention like some of the others.

Us Godly girls are waiting for you to lead us like God has called you to. So we will not make the first move. We may not even make it obvious that we are crushing hard on you. We will, in most cases, sit quietly and pray to God that you feel the same.

Those girls that know who they are in Christ, will not push you. We hold ourselves accountable and we want the same things as you. We want the healthy, religious relationship and we know our worth. We believe that God has the right person for us and maybe you’re him, but we trust God.

We want you to always push us toward our purpose. We want you to always direct us back to the one who loves us the most. We want you to be more in love with God than with us. We want to value each other’s time, space, and even love. We want to build with each other. We want to go in faith with each other. We want to serve God TOGETHER.

The best thing you can do, gentlemen, is build a friendship with us first and foremost. For example, let’s learn what each other likes and dislikes. Let’s go on crazy adventures. Let’s learn what makes it each other happy, sad, and even mad.

Guys, be yourself. Someone will come along and they will be perfect for you! And only YOU! I know sometimes it seems that things will never get better, but I promise it does. Your future will fall right into place with the right girl.

Treasure her. Treasure your future wife today. Pray for her. God is with your girl right now. Think intently about what you want for your lives. Pray about it now and believe God will take you there. God knows and He is writing your love story. Regardless, she needs your prayers and I bet she is praying for you right this second. She might be praying that there is someone out there who loves her and is praying for her too.

So when it comes down to it, we are praying with you just as much you are. We know it is hard and we are fighting for you! This is not the end for either one of us! We are thankful for you! Wear your FAITH BOLDLY! Watch God send the right people in your life!

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