7 Things I Want My Best Friend To Know

7 Things I Want My Best Friend To Know

You can do anything you set your mind to, and I will always be here to remind you.

Dear Best Friend,

Lives cross paths for different reasons, and I am thankful for ours crossing. The last three years have left me a few things to tell you:

1. You are beautiful!

You have embraced who you are as a person, and impacted so many people along the way. You are gorgeous inside and out.

2. You can do anything.

In the last four years, I have seen you do many things. You joined Sigma Alpha Iota and Delta Zeta. You also chartered Delta Sigma Pi, graduated in three years, marched in the Jacksonville State University Marching Southerners, all while working. Not to mention you got a job in New York after graduation! Who could do that?!

3. You always follow your heart.

I have never seen something get between you and your dreams. Many are fearful about getting out of their comfort zone but you have always kept going. We have had so many adventures that I will never forget, and I am so excited to see you on your next one!

4. Determination

Girl, I am not sure I have seen someone set a goal for herself and chase after it as strong and confidently as you have. You are a strong-willed woman, do not forget that.

5. Any man will be lucky to have you.

Ok, so one of our many fun nights, that might have or might not have included drinking, we made a marriage pact that if we are not married at the age of thirty we would get married. Well, I am here to tell you that will probably not happen. Knowing how amazing you are, honey you are going to find some red-headed man from some country that is not America, and will be swept off your feet. It will happen, and I have no doubt he is out in the world traveling like you are, waiting to find you.

6. Your fashion sense is one of a kind.

I do not mean this in the "Oh my god, what is she wearing that is totally wretched but at least she is being herself." I mean it as, "Oh my goodness, she is pulling that off like crazy! I wanted to buy that but SO could not pull it off like that." You get me? Haha!

7. You will always be my best friend, and I will always be yours!

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Shoutout To My Parents For Giving Me My Best Friend In The Form Of A Younger Brother

He's not as bad as I first anticipated.


This is a story about my best friend.

I was lucky enough to have a built-in bestie from the day he came home with my parents and I immediately questioned who they stole the "creature" from.

My brother's name is Andrew and he and I have always had a catty but close relationship, which has developed into something I wouldn't trade for the world.

When we were younger we were the most jocular kids you could find and spent our days running around with our school friends shooting each other with nerf guns, hiding in every corner to leap out and give the other a heart attack.

We would hang out for hours until someone antagonized the other (Andrew was always the trouble maker) and yelled for our mom to intervene, or took out our ager by practicing our yellow belt karate skills on each other until our fake punches got to be too much and we would die laughing.

I never realized how special my relationship with my brother was until I heard how my friends talked out their siblings. My friends would endlessly complain about how much they hated their brother or sister and wished they were never born; and me, being who I am, would be shocked that they used the h-word, and tell them that they must still love them which they would relentlessly deny.

Seeing these failing relationships taught me to cherish what my brother and I have, and that is honestly the most important responsibility, and gift, I could've ever been given.

Looking back, the best childhood memories I have include him, and I wouldn't have it any other way. From founding the science club (his closet that we would do experiments in, and give our friends golf balls with their name on it as a key), to sledding down a three-foot hill in our neighbor's backyard for hours, to surfing and boogie boarding until we turned to prunes, to the endless games of HORSE we played (I don't understand how I'm still terrible at basketball), he's been with me.

Since then, our relationship has blossomed into much more than snow wrestling and movie binging; now as an adult, coming home from college is the most stress relieving and exciting time, because I know I get to hang out with my brother and talk about the most obscure things until he makes me get out of his room (because teenage angst, you know!!).

Thankfully, the required familial love has turned into a never-ending love for my best friend and little brother, and I can't wait to keep growing up side by side and to see what the world has in store for us.


ANDDDD HE'S 17 (as of the 15th)https://www.instagram.com/rebecca_miller38/

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