7 Things I Want My Best Friend To Know

7 Things I Want My Best Friend To Know

You can do anything you set your mind to, and I will always be here to remind you.

Dear Best Friend,

Lives cross paths for different reasons, and I am thankful for ours crossing. The last three years have left me a few things to tell you:

1. You are beautiful!

You have embraced who you are as a person, and impacted so many people along the way. You are gorgeous inside and out.

2. You can do anything.

In the last four years, I have seen you do many things. You joined Sigma Alpha Iota and Delta Zeta. You also chartered Delta Sigma Pi, graduated in three years, marched in the Jacksonville State University Marching Southerners, all while working. Not to mention you got a job in New York after graduation! Who could do that?!

3. You always follow your heart.

I have never seen something get between you and your dreams. Many are fearful about getting out of their comfort zone but you have always kept going. We have had so many adventures that I will never forget, and I am so excited to see you on your next one!

4. Determination

Girl, I am not sure I have seen someone set a goal for herself and chase after it as strong and confidently as you have. You are a strong-willed woman, do not forget that.

5. Any man will be lucky to have you.

Ok, so one of our many fun nights, that might have or might not have included drinking, we made a marriage pact that if we are not married at the age of thirty we would get married. Well, I am here to tell you that will probably not happen. Knowing how amazing you are, honey you are going to find some red-headed man from some country that is not America, and will be swept off your feet. It will happen, and I have no doubt he is out in the world traveling like you are, waiting to find you.

6. Your fashion sense is one of a kind.

I do not mean this in the "Oh my god, what is she wearing that is totally wretched but at least she is being herself." I mean it as, "Oh my goodness, she is pulling that off like crazy! I wanted to buy that but SO could not pull it off like that." You get me? Haha!

7. You will always be my best friend, and I will always be yours!

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3. "Do you date guys that are shorter than you?"

Any girl who is at least 5'8" will understand these struggles and possibly identify with them on a spiritual level.

1. Dresses not being long enough

Finding dresses for any occasion that will be long enough is like searching for rain in a drought. And when you find one, it's bound to either cost $$$ or not fit another aspect of your body.

2. Heck, pants are never long enough either

You are constantly flooding, or else you rolled up your jeans to look like capris. Unless you special ordered some jeans online in the coveted size LONG or EXTRA LONG, this will forever be your fate.

3. "Do you date guys that are shorter than you?"

This is a personal preference people! Don't assume that a girl will or will not date someone just based on their height difference! Also, don't judge if they aren't interested in someone who is shorter than them!

4. Not wearing heels because you don't enjoy being the skyscraper of the friend group

Wearing heels can be fun buuuuuuuut sometimes towering over everyone else is not our idea of fun.

5. It's hard to find cute shoes that actually fit

You would love to have all those cute little shoes in the clearance section, but most of them barely cover your big toe.

6. Everyone thinks you walk too fast

Short-legged people just can't keep up with you, even though you aren't even walking fast. Like at all.

7. People want to jump on your back

Just because you're tall doesn't give them the license to make you into their personal camel.

8. Never being able to cross your legs underneath desks and tables

You. Can. Not. Get. Comfortable.

9. Awkward hugs

Some people will never understand.

10. Never knowing how to pose in pictures

Should you sorority squat? Pop the hip? Bend the leg? Contort your body to feel like a normal sized human? So hard to decide.

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Summer = Rest?

Sometimes it feels as if we need a vacation... from our vacation.


Ah summer: Popsicles and sun burns, mixed with fresh-squeezed lemonade that local kids are pandering to make enough money for Roman candles and Black Cats. The crack of the bat can be heard among the simmering charcoal grills and Troy-bilts humming through the ever-lasting sun. School is out and children are wild. It's a paradise.

Or is it?

But after countless sports camps and tournaments, other camps, vacations, school (?) events, traveling teams, VBS, summer seems to have been sucked fun-free.

Maybe it's Hollywood and Harper Lee's fault for giving us this utopian view of what summer should look and feel like (I'm looking at you Sandlot). But how can we really rest this summer? Because everyone needs some actual rest, even adults.

First thing is do NOT pack your summer full. Say no to some things. Coaches and Families can expect too much and it's okay to say no to them. You have to. There is no time for kids to be kids anymore.

Work can take a backseat. Vacations need to be taken. Families need to reconnect.

And for all my super-scheduled people out there, please PLEASE don't schedule out your vacation. Just enjoy it.

Another bit of advice would be to put away the technology and spend some time outside. When was the last time you tried to catch lightning bugs? Or went for a swim? Or listened to birds on your front porch?

I may sound like I have an old soul, but I really feel like we have lost this connection to the outside world. Summer is all about getting a farmer's tan and getting stung once or twice. I can guarantee you that's some of the best therapy in the world.

Maybe this sounds all over the place. Maybe this sounds like me ranting. And it probably is.

But I'm telling you that this stuff matters. Don't let summer whiz by and you arrive in August more drained that you were in May. Enjoy this time with family and friends.

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