The Day After: Election Day

The Day After: Election Day

November 9th, 2016
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The weeks leading up to the presidential election day were of utmost importance and incredible rhetoric. News outlets, social media and other sources focused on the presidential race more so than in previous months discussing the scandals, issues and platforms of both candidates.

In these weeks, we liked to think we were a united America with a few separations here and there, but this separation is something we were working on, or so we thought.

On November 8th, 2016, the United States faced one its most historical presidential elections. And, perhaps one that divided Americans the most. This day will forever go down in history.

Even more important is the day after.

Students slowly came out of the comfort of their rooms and moved on with their day under the unusual overcast Florida skies. Some students were crying, some were celebrating, but from I saw, many were very confused.

A few professors were discussing the election, trying to gather our thoughts, but many students refused to talk. We are still so surprised from the results.

A friend and staff member reached out to me to comfort, and numerous Rollins organizations provided spaces for discussion and counseling for those who needed someone to listen.

Let us back track to the night before.

Sitting in my room doing homework and monitoring the electoral vote count for the candidates, it was clear to me something was utterly off. So many people expressed their desire to vote for Clinton, yet Trump was winning right before my eyes. How is this possible?

I took a deep breath and quickly realized my theory was wrong. Clinton would not win in a landslide and Trump would win.

And, so I took to social media. As votes were tallied from Florida to California, one thing was clear; many of us expected very different outcomes. I went to sleep around 1:30 a.m. certain our next president would be Donald Trump.

Right before I went to sleep, I reflected upon what I would tell my kids someday. I will tell them today is the day America realized its own division. I will tell them that I woke up on election day and felt numb while many of my friends were hurting. I will tell them in that moment, I made it my mission to spread love because love is the most powerful thing in this world.

This morning, I woke up to gloomy skies and an even gloomier atmosphere on campus. Students were crying, and expressing their fears and anxieties of a Trump presidency.

Again, I took to social media. Hundreds of friends and family posting about the election, whether they were expressing sorrow or happiness, it ranged.

Across the nation, protests are being held via social media and in universities and towns. People are expressing their opinion. Others are spreading love whenever and wherever possible.

Election day was a monumental day in history, but it is the day after that sparks the future of this country. Today, the skies are grey and the electoral college chose Donald Trump as our next president, but our future generations will know many of us rose up and fought for love. And we will keep fighting for love.

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To The Boy Who Will Love Me Next

If you can't understand these few things, leave before things get too involved
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To the boy that will love me next, I need you to know and understand things about me and my past. The things I have been though not only have shaped the person I’ve become, but also sometimes controls my life. In the past I’ve been used, abused, and taken for granted, and I want something real this time. The guys before you were just boys; they didn’t know how to treat me until it was too late. They didn’t understand how to love me, until I broke my own heart. Before you truly decide to love me I want you to understand these things.

When I tell you something, please listen.

I’m my own person, I want to be loved a certain way. If I ask you to come over and watch movies with me please do it, if I ask for you to leave me alone for a few hours because it’s a girl’s night please do it. I don’t just say things to hear my own voice, I say things to you because it’s important to my life and the way I want to be loved. I’m not a needy person when it comes to being loved and cared for, but I do ask for you to do the small things that I am say.

Forgive my past.

My past is not a pretty brick road, it is a highway that has a bunch of potholes and cracks in it. I have a lot of baggage, and most of it you won’t understand. But don’t let my past decided whether you want to love me or not. My past has helped form who I am today, but it does not define who I am. My past experiences might try and make an appearance every once in a while, but I will not go back to that person I once was, I will not return to all that hurt I once went though. When I say those things, I’m telling the complete and honest truth. I relive my past every day, somethings haunt me and somethings are good reminds. But for you to love me, I need you to accept my past, present and future.

I’m just another bro to the other guys.

I have always hung out with boys, I don’t fit in with the girl groups. I have 10 close girlfriends, but the majority of my friends are guy, but don’t let this scare you. If I wanted to be with one of my guy friends I would already be with him, and if you haven’t noticed I don’t want them because I’m with you. I will not lose my friendships with all my guy friends to be able to stay with you. I will not cut off ties because you don’t like my guy friends. I have lost too many buddies because of my ex-boyfriends and I promised myself I wouldn’t do that again. If you don’t like how many guy friends I have you can leave now. Don’t bother trying to date me if you can accept the fact I’m just another bro.

I might be a badass, but I actually have a big heart.

To a lot of people I come off to be a very crazy and wild girl. I will agree I can be crazy and wild, but I’m more than that. I’m independent, caring, responsible, understanding, forgiving, and so such more type of woman. Many people think that I’m a badass because I don’t take any negatively from anyone. Just like we learned when we were younger, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all.” Most people can’t do that in today’s world, so I stick up for myself and my friends. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me, or their option on how I live my life. The only thing I care about is being able to make myself happy. Even though I’m an independent woman, understand that I do have a big heart. Honesty when I truly care for someone I will do just about anything they ask, but don’t take advantage of this. Once you take advantage of this part of me, all respect will be lost for you.

I’m hard to love.

Sometimes I want to be cuddle and get attention, and sometimes I don’t want you to talk to me for a couple hours. Sometimes I want you to take me out for a nice meal, but sometimes I want a home cooked meal. Every day is different for me, sometimes I change my mind every hour. My mood swings are terrible on certain days, and on those days you should probably just ignore me. I’m not easy to love, so you’ll either be willing to find a way to love me, or you’ll walk out like so many others have.

I’m scared.

I’m scared to love someone again. I’ve been hurt, heartbroken, and beat to the ground in my past relationships. I want to believe you are different, I want to hope things will truly work out, but every relationship has always ended up the same way. I’m scared to trust someone, put my whole heart into them, just to be left and heartbroken again. I sick and tired of putting my whole body and soul into someone for them to just leave when it is convenient for them. If you want to love me, understand it won’t be easy for me to love you back.

When “I’m done.”

When I say “I’m done” I honestly don’t mean that I’m done. When I say that it means I need and want you to fight for me, show me why you want to be with me. I need you to prove that I’m worth it and there’s no one else but me. If I was truly done, I would just walk away, and not come back. So if I ever tell you, “I’m done,” tell me all the reasons why I’m truly not done.

For the boy who will love me next, the work is cut out for you, you just have to be willing to do it. I’m not like other girls, I am my own person, and I will need to be treated as such. For the boy that will love me next, don’t bother with me unless you really want to be with me. I don’t have time to waste on you if you aren’t going to try and make something out of us. To the boy who will love me next, the last thing I would like to say is good luck, I have faith in you.

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Focus all your energy into just being. No one expects you to get over the tragedy that occurred in your life, so don't force yourself. Just eat, breathe, and sleep until you feel up to doing normal tasks. Whatever circumstance that has stolen your breath and turned your life upside down won't go a week in a couple of days or a week. Wounds like yours don't go away instantly; instead, they take time and nurturing. Sometimes it's best to keep a sore covered but in some circumstances, know that seeing someone is okay.

These tragedies you face are real, and they try to break down the very substances that make you who you are. Counselors and therapists can help you make sense of the burden you carry. There are many reasons why you might be hesitant to see a therapist, but if the burden you carry becomes too much, a therapist can help you lighten that load.

Know that what you are going through is real and it is tough, but you will make it out on top. You are a survivor and a success story. Every single bad thing that has tried to tear you down hasn't succeeded, and this will be no different. Trust me, your story is not over.

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