Most of us have heard of the Myers-Briggs personality test.
This type indicator assessment categorizes individuals into sixteen distinct personalities. The INFP personality type, or "the Mediator," is introverted, intuitive, feeling and perceiving, and it is a rare personality type that few individuals possess.
If you or someone you know is dating an INFP, then here are some things that you can expect:
1. They're Dreamers.
INFPs often imagine the perfect relationship in their head. More often than not, they're trying to match up your qualities with their image of the perfect partner. Sometimes, if their expectations aren't met, they'll have to compromise on certain things to have their needs satisfied. Compromise can be one of the hardest things for an INFP.
2. They Feel. A LOT.
You've never had a partner quite like an INFP before. They love and feel deeply, so there is no need to worry about whether their feelings for you are real or not. Often, INFPs will express unstable behavior because they don't have good control over their emotions. This isn't necessarily a bad thing. Just be patient with your partner and realize that their emotions are their main form of expression.
3. They Have Strong Moral Codes.
INFPs are very flighty and scared to take risks. Rather than live life on the edge, they tend to choose comfort, safety, and security over all else. INFPs often come with a moral code that they will follow, and if you force them to operate outside of their moral code, it can be good or bad. Often, relationship turbulence can follow, but sometimes a little push outside of the comfort zone is all an INFP needs to come out of their shell.
4. They Actively Avoid Conflict.
INFPs are not confrontational people. They hate being confronted and their minds tend to self-destruct when they face strong conflict. INFPs can't stand the thought of not being liked, so they always try to go above and beyond in relationships, school, and the workplace.
5. They Don't Take Criticism Well.
Don't insult an INFP if you can avoid it. It's not that they can't take it, but they will feel like you are attacking them personally if you give them even the slightest bit of criticism. If there is something that they need to work on in the relationship, talk to them calmly and privately about it without insulting them. NEVER criticize an INFP in front of people.
6. You Are Their First Priority
An INFP will always put you first, no exceptions. There is rarely a time that an INFP won't go above and beyond for someone that they love. Don't take it for granted.
7. They Will Always See the Good in You
No matter how badly you break their heart, they will always see the good in you. INFPs don't love or trust easily, so once you're in, you're usually in their hearts for life.
So, if you're dating an INFP, know that they are emotional beings who try to do good. They will fail sometimes, as they are only human, but they will always pick themselves back up again.
