It's hard to scroll through Twitter without some young lady boldly come out to her followers that she is one of those "crazy girlfriends." Much worse, is when they include the entire female gender into this crazy category. I am not crazy, and I do not appreciate being categorized as such. Let me tell you something ladies, crazy doesn't get married, crazy gets locked up in the insane asylum next to Mona Vanderwaal.
If you feel the need to constantly go through bae's phone, and check what he likes on instagram and twitter, he is not for you. If you constantly have to keep a lurking eye out on what he's really doing when you're not around, he's not for you. If you know his behavior changes around other girls, when you're not present, he's not for you. If you can't trust him, he's not for you.
Don't become childish for the boy you're attempting to win over. He's a boy, not a man, and he's certainly not worth it. Ladies, we need to learn when to walk away. I have seen girls go back to back to boys who deteriorate their self-confidence and trust, time and time again. Yes, I understand that you "like" him, or "love" him, but is he really worth you trading pieces of your heart, and apparently your sanity to be with him? What if he gets bored and decides to end it for good? Then what do you have other than fragments of your feelings? This type of relationship effects us more in the long-term than we are willing to admit.
Ladies, you are not crazy. Put your trust in the Lord, and seek His plan for your life. He is preparing you a man who will prove that there is no need to sacrifice your peace to make sure he is loyal. Do not trade your trust or venture from the path of God for a boy who is not your forever man. He's not worth it, but you are.
