It is always fun to go to a concert with a friend that enjoys the same band as you, but what happens when they don't? There is not a lot of fun in going to a show where you're singing the words at the top of your lungs, and the person you're with cannot relate. It almost kills your vibe. Wouldn't you much rather be in your own bubble enjoying the music instead of thinking if your friend is having a good time?

For me, it has gotten to a point where I ask a few people if they know the artist that is coming in town, and if not, I simple buy one ticket for myself. Too many times I have purchased two tickets and stressed over getting someone to come along. At that point, they usually don't know who is playing, or may just know one song. This end with the experience I just described.

The first concert I went to solo was Catfish and the Bottlemen. I have been to that venue before, which I think it is slightly important so you're not just jumping into something completely unfamiliar. In the line I somehow joined a conversation with two girls in front of me. We became acquainted, and talked while we waited for the band to come out. I think the worst part about going alone is the waiting. The next show I went to a lone was not like the first. I stood by myself with no one to talk to. It really is not that bad, especially if your phone is charged. It just gets a little boring.

There are times where the crowd moves, and with a friend, it becomes a little stressful to keep them right next to you. Being alone, there is no baggage to worry about; you are free to go where you please. I feel this makes it easier to meet and start conversations with new people. With a friend, I think there is a lower chance of talking to someone new because you don't necessarily need to.

Taking the whole experience solo imbeds a sense of independence. As a female, taking on Detroit in the evening can be a little scary. Making sure I get to where I need to be without any distractions is kind of fun. There is a little adrenaline rush when I hustle to my car. The area is always well lit, and there are plenty of people about, but there is still a little excitement.

Knowing I can handle concerts by myself, I am no longer held back by others to go see the music I love live. If you have ever been hesitant to go to a concert because there is no one to join, try it out. Go alone! Getting out of your comfort zone is such an exceptional way to grow as a person and experience new things.