Getting the full college experience involves getting involved in activities and clubs on campus. Almost all colleges have a vast amount of clubs and programs to get involved in. If it’s volunteering or even Greek life, it can alter the way college enhances one’s life.
As a commuter, my first semester of college I went to my required classes and then returned home. I never really thought about including myself in any known organizations -- until the second semester, when I realized I was missing out big time. I had two of my best friends ask me to join a select few clubs, so I would stay on campus more often. Since then, I’ve stayed on campus most days and I have met more good friends.
Being a commuter is not as bad as many people may think. Compared to being a resident it is a lot different, but they both have their pros and cons. People would always tell me that I made the wrong decision because being a commuter does not allow the full college experience, but I have to disagree. It depends on what an individual makes of their college experience to see if it was worthwhile or not. Commuting was a great decision for me and I would not change it for the world. I get to go to campus and spend time with great friends, but still come home to my loving boyfriend and family.
Family is the biggest component of me spending most of my time staying home. I believe that these moments we have with loved ones can never be taken back. Spending an entire year without my family seems impossible. Sadly, many college students do not realize that as they are growing up, their parents are growing older. Therefore, I love coming home to my supportive family each day, rather than a roommate that I may or may not like.
Switching roommates is difficult until the end of each semester. Much of everyone’s time is spent around other people. Sometimes alone time is extremely necessary. Not all the time do I want to be spending time doing things, when all I need is some time to sit in silence and watch a little TV or read a book.
Never assume a commuter student does not have a full experience. Commuter or resident, it's what is made of the experience rather than what is done about it. Life is what is made of it, but everyone’s life is different. Don’t feel forced to go away to college if that is not preferred. Commuting and resident students all get great experiences in different ways.
