Exploring your sexuality later in life

It Is Never Too Late To Let Yourself Explore Your Sexuality

Go at your own pace.


For the majority of my life, I have identified as straight, it was what I knew, but I never let myself look into other options. Not because I had anything against it, but because I thought it was something I should have figured out or had an idea before I entered into adulthood.

Growing up in middle and high school, most people were only aware of straight, gay, lesbian, and had an idea of what transgender was. Nowadays people have more knowledge of LGBTQ+ as a whole. When I first started reading more and educating myself, something kind of clicked that I was truly not fully straight. I started realizing I found myself attracted to not only cis-males like I once thought but also females, non-binary, trans people, etc. I never let myself explore these options until a few years ago I am learning more about myself, and I am sure I am not alone in this discovery later in life.

I came across this article, of others who realized and came out much later in life. It made me realize, it's okay that I am doing this when I am older. Just because I did not let myself fully explore these options when I was younger, does not mean my journey is any less valid. I am just going at my own pace that makes the most sense for me. Each person is unique and no self-discovery journey is comparable to another.

This journey is definitely one I can never suggest conquering in a single sitting. Take the time to learn, educate and understand the differences between different identities. It can be overwhelming at first when you first start really paying attention. Even if things change down the road, and you find something that better suits your identity, that is okay too. I don't think there is ever a true one fit all definition for any of them.

Whether you discover yourself at age 12 or 21 or 41, it is never too late to learn who you are.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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