Why I Accept The LGBT Community

Why I Accept The LGBT Community

Love is Love.

Over the last decade, our society has become more accepting of the LGBT community, yet we still shed a large amount of judgment towards them. Anyone can say that to be either gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender is not natural, but our current times are evolving. A lot of Americans are still stuck in their old views and religious beliefs, and they're letting those blind them from spreading equality.

This is the belief that I have: to me love is love, and everyone should have the opportunity to do so. Now by me believing this, Christians can raise the questions of what the Bible has to say. In the Old Testament there a number of passages that have been used to interpret homosexuality to Christians. But as the LGBT community continues to grow, these passages begin to be questioned. Should we be interpreting these passages in way that we should be prohibiting homosexuality? In chapters 18 and 20 of Leviticus, the Bible creates a sense of holiness which prohibits forms of intercourse with those of the same sex. Chapter 18 verse 22 states, “You shall not lie with a male as a woman; it is an abomination.” This particular verse is what non-supports of LGBTs use to prohibit any act of homosexuality.

It is evident that many churches still stand with this belief, but others such as myself belief that these passages are now misunderstood and historical changes are not taken into account. The use of Bible verses won't stop anyone from loving who they love. Why shove religious views into an issue that is mostly created out of fear?

When we look at these passages now, it is possible to be a Christian and do not exactly believe in these verses. I can be a Christian and support LGBTs, too, because all I want is for everyone to have equality. I feel that now these verses are not relevant to the changes of culture and evolution. Again, I do believe in God, but I also believe that everyone has to right to love who they want to. Love is love. I believe that someone cannot choose to be gay; it is part of their biological makeup which is the way God made them.

We cannot continue to use the Bible as an excuse not to accept someone being homosexual. They love the same as us, so we need to accept that fact and get over it. Throwing the Bible and your beliefs in the faces of those who support gays won't change the fact that they support them or the fact that someone is gay. We just don't support the idea of being gay; we support equality. And isn't that what truly matters?

If you don’t believe in the right for everyone to love who they want to, then that is okay. But imagine yourself in their shoes: constantly being put down for who they love and living in a society where they are not easily accepted. Those who are heterosexual have the equality to love who they choose, so why can it be the same for those who are homosexual? If society took the time to look at the positive loves stories of those in the LGBT community, maybe we would be more accepting. Everyone doesn’t have to believe in this point of view, but at least respect those of the LGBT community. Equality and acceptance is the answer.

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The amount of hurt and disappointment our family has gone through has brought us closer together. I have a relationship with Nanny and Pop that would never be as strong as it is today if you had been in the picture from day one. That in itself is a blessing.

Thank you for showing me how to love.

From your absence, I have learned how to love unconditionally. I want you to know that even though you weren't here, I love you most of all. No matter the amount of heartbreak, tears, and pain I've felt, you will always be my greatest love.

Thank you for making me strong.

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Everyone Should Care About Latinx Issues, Regardless Of Their Own Identities

It's important no matter who you are or where you come from.


Disclaimer: As someone who is white, I am speaking on a culture that is not my own and which I am not an authority on. Please remember this and do your own research. Reach out to those who do identify as Latinx but as always, respect that it is not the job of any minority population to field all questions and educate.

People often say that no matter how old you get or how much you think you know, you never stop learning. I've always found this to be true but recently I was reminded of just how true it really is. On March 27, Bowling Green State University held their 24th annual Latino/A/X issues conference. I had heard about the conference in passing much earlier in the month and it piqued my interest but admittedly slipped my mind pretty quickly after hearing about it. It wasn't until a friend of mine had informed me that she and another one of our friends were receiving awards at the conference that I finally put it on my calendar.

As I looked through the program at all of the different events scheduled for the day, the first to catch my eye was a theatrical performance called Spanish Ohio: Reflections on loss, gain acceptance and belonging moderated by a Bowling Green professor and friend, Emily Aguliar. I can confidently say that I have not, in a long time felt so confused and lost in a theatrical setting in a long time. The performance was presented in about 90% Spanish and 10% English and having little more than a basic understanding of Spanish from my high school days, I was able to understand a few key words or phrases here and there but more I just found myself intrigued by what I didn't understand...which was a lot. At the end of the performance, there was a sort of Q&A; where we as the audience could ask questions to the performers. During which time an audience member made a comment that really opened my mind.

She had said that it was important for people outside of the Latinx community to be lost in that moment. That the not understanding was what so many people whose first language isn't English feel all the time.

This statement really hit me hard and stuck with me. Even though I was at a performance at my college where I knew that I was safe, secure and taken care of, not knowing what was going on around me was overwhelming and a little unsettling. Not because I fear the existence of languages other than English, but because I felt as if I was expected to understand and take away things that I simply couldn't. And the fact that people move about in the world feeling like this every day in a society where they are not looked after or cared for was a painful but oh so necessary realization.

People are being forced to exist in a place that doesn't make it easy for them to do so. All too often the one piece of 'advice' given to those who speak any language other than English is simply to 'Just speak English' as if it is more important for the majority to feel comfortable and unthreatened by the existence of a language outside of our own than it is to respect the culture, language, and diversity of the Latinx community.

This conference really opened my eyes to the struggles of the Latinx community but at the same time, it highlighted and celebrated the achievements as well. I was lucky enough to be able to see two women who are very important to me receive awards for the work that they've done in and around the community. Both of these women are beyond deserving of the accolades they received. They are passionate, strong, opinionated women with knowledge and heart and I was thankful to be there to witness both of them receiving the recognition that they so deserve. It is SO important to recognize the contributions of people who have been pushed to the sort of outskirts of the conversation so to speak and I can say that it was very moving for me to see my friends as well as the others at the conference reveling in their identities and their cultures.

This is how it should be at all times, not just at a conference.

People should feel comfortable in their identities and people who are in positions of privilege should be using their voices to amplify the marginalized. I am so very thankful to have been able to attend this event and learn and grow in my understanding of culture, identity, and people. So, thank you to BGSU and LSU for putting in the work to make this possible for everyone, and to Emily and Camila-I'm proud of you both! Amplify the marginalized and underrepresented and never stop learning everything you can.

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