For as long as I can remember, I have always known I wanted to go to college, but, to be what? That always changed. It is still very much contemplated on. When I was almost finished with high school, everyone was telling me about their college experiences, so I kind of had this mindframe of what my experience would be like. From the hellacious parties, to nights before a test and everything inbetween. I knew what I was expecting. But, college was nowhere near that.
First things first, I was told that I would go to many parties all throughout the week. But the thing is, I am not a very social person, so I knew that wouldn't be true. Here I am in my second year and I have still not been to a party, which I am totally cool with.
I was told to study like I had in high school. The problem here, I never had to study in high school. Now, I am finding my self pulling 3 or 4 partially all-nighters to prepare for ONE test. And consuming way too much coffee.
I was also told that my religious beliefs would "slow down." First off, what does that even mean? At home, I went to church every Sunday. I also went to most of our church events. At college, I still go to church. It may not be every Sunday, but I make sure to get into the word, and pray and what not.
I was told working a part-time job is a bad idea because it will get in the way of your schooling. Now, I am a CNA and I work every other weekend from 7AM-3PM. I still manage to get some studying in. It might not be as much as I like, but I can manage it.
I was told not to get really close to anyone, because like in high school, friends are trouble. On move-in day, freshman year, I had made the best of friends within 15 minutes of being on campus. Still to this day, they are the best of friends I could have ever asked for.
One last thing, I was told not to try and keep a boyfriend while in school. They will just distract you. I have now been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, and he keeps me motivated. So, I say keeping a boyfriend in college is one of the best things to do, if you are both devoted and can deal with distance.
Therefore, whatever anyone may tell you about college, all I can say is don't believe them. You have to experience it for yourself. Make it your own experience, because in the end college is so well worth the stress, anxiety, and headaches. With those, there are many great times.
