Being a freshman in college is a struggle because it is my first real taste of being an adult. Especially moving away from home. It never really occurred to me how easy I had it, until I had to save all my money, make “food" through only a microwave, and not have my parents or the same friends I've been with since I was 5. I realized I am on my own.

I remember my first day after moving in and thinking to myself, “I could be a whole new person." I was given the chance to grow, and I did! In just one year at Arizona State University, I feel as if I have experienced more successes and failures than I have in my entire life. And no, I'm not “a whole new person," but I am a better version of myself. I have come to know myself better as a person. Each failure I have experienced has lead me to realize my weaknesses and better understand my strengths.

Of course, I'm not always this positive although it may seem like it! Just like the rest of us, I am my worst critic. I'm ridiculously hard on myself, which is very unhealthy because it leads me to think I am never doing enough. But...I am! I am obviously not perfect, but neither is anyone else. We all have our own personal struggles, but I think what makes it easier is the moment you realize what didn't work and what will. How will you EVER grow as a person if you never experience a setback or two?

Another way that I've found myself thriving in college is by both the amazing organizations I'm apart of as well as the roles I hold in them. I've met so many inspirational people that have taught me more than I could ever learn on my own. In fact, I remember my dad telling me that I will meet some of the most amazing people in college, the kind of people who will have genuine, intelligent conversations with you.

He was exactly right. I have made friendships that will last forever, and I've met inspirational leaders who motivate me. I came to college getting nearly everything that I wanted out of it. Sure, some things might not have gone exactly as planned, but as long as I continue with the correct mindset and great aspirations, I think I'll continue to become the person I aspire to be. A loving daughter, a genuine friend, a supportive girlfriend, a hard-working student, an inspirational leader to others.

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