Before heading off to college I received so much advice from family, friends, and anyone else who could give it. They talked about GPA's, roommate problems, making new friends and visitations. I thought I had all the knowledge I could get going into my first day as a freshman. Although their advice did help, here are some things that I have learned during my freshman year.
1. Everyone parties and drinks.
Unlike high school you don't need to be drunk if you're at a party. You don't even need to go to parties. There is a misconception that you're not really a college student unless you're plastered drunk every weekend, and I am glad that is not true.
2. You need to sit with lots of friends at every meal.
People don't care if you eat alone — it's actually very common in college. Your eating schedule just might not match with your friends' or roommates' some days and that's okay.
3. The professors are heartless.
Some professors actually do care, which is why you really should go to class. They want you to succeed and are willing to help you in any way they can. Many offer extra credit or let you sit with them to discuss your paper before writing it.
4. Papers on papers on papers.
Although there will be some lengthy papers that you will be writing in college, it won't be all the time. You may average one a month, maybe even less than that.
5. You will automatically be broke.
Yes, college tuition, room and board and books are expensive. However, that doesn't mean you should deprive yourself of spending some money. Treat yourself to a night out here and there because trust me, the dining hall food will get boring. There are also tons of clubs and activities on campus that are free so keep an eye out for those!
6. Your dorm will look like a Pinterest photo.
Yes I know this may make you sad, but your dorm is your own space and not to mention small. Fill it with photos of family and friends, and things that remind you of home. Also consider how much school supplies, books, clothes and beauty items you may bring.
7. Orientation activities aren't "cool."
Personally I am not friends with anyone I met during orientation — but that doesn't mean you shouldn't participate. Orientation is a great way to start exploring the new freedom you have, break out and push your boundaries. The ice breakers will get old, I won't lie, but if you participate so will others.
8. You will become an instant adult.
I wanted this to be true so bad, but unfortunately, it's not. You will get homesick, you will need advice, and you will get confused. College life is a whole new experience, and don't be afraid to accept that and ask for help. It's also a new experience for your parents too, so confide in them and let them help you.
