Every girl has goals in mind that they want to achieve when going off to a university and obtaining their four-year degree. They may want to get involved with campus organizations, get straight A's every semester, meet new people, develop leadership skills, or find the best internship. Whatever it is that they have in mind, they are going to experience opportunities that will better their future and give them skills necessary for a successful career and life.
After getting excited upon receiving an acceptance letter from their top college choice, women may think that they know what they are getting into when they move in as a freshman, but they can underestimate how truly challenging it is to balance that kind of lifestyle. When you realize that it is harder than it looks, finding a mentor or role model is only natural. They turn to girls that are older than them, and they look up to them. The only issue is making sure that the right role model is chosen. What is it that makes an upperclassman female a great role model?
Here are some characteristics that the ultimate role model-worthy college female has to offer to help guide her underclassmen admirers who are striving for a meaningful four years:
1. Kindness
She is the girl who always makes others feel welcome even if her day has been brutal. She will compliment each and every person around her even if she has only known them for an hour. Her positive attitude toward others make people respect her. Even if they don't openly admit it, they subconsciously think it and do not fear approaching her.
2. Strong Academics
Her academics are the most important part of her college career, and she excels in them. Younger students look up to her for her dedication to getting excellent grades, and they will become inspired to focus on the reason they are in college.
3. Campus Involvement
She has always enjoyed helping others and getting involved with her community and can be seen anywhere and everywhere. Not only that, but she has connections around campus that could be useful.
4. The Miley Mentality
She is willing to occasionally go out on weekends with her friends and let loose, randomly displaying her twerking skills for everyone to see. It is great to let some of the stress out, and she always makes sure that her homework is done before she goes anywhere. She knows the difference between being careless and being carefree. Being able to balance a social life and academics is a key trait that every college student should have.
5. Confidence
She is not afraid to speak her mind, because she does not want to be known as weak. People take advantage of weakness.
6. Laughter
She has a sense of humor that instantly makes others laugh. The words that come out of her mouth can sometimes be unexpected, which is entertaining to say the least. Her personality is full of positive vibes, and she makes friends this way. A trait such as this could help to set her apart from another during a job interview upon graduation.
7. Motivation
Even though she is talented in every aspect of her life, she can see the best in others and wants to see them achieve their full potential. She is a great leader, and those around her can't help but feel motivated as she lets them know their strengths and gives them the confidence to act on them..
8. Being a Woman of Her Word
When she says that she is going to go somewhere or do something, she sticks to it. Time is important to her, and she is willing to give it to those she has previously promised it to. Unless there is a huge tragedy, she means it when saying that she will meet for lunch next Tuesday to study Biology. Being punctual says a lot about a person's work ethic.
9. Knowing a Lot of People
Wherever she goes, there is always a familiar face smiling back. Her people skills make her personality contagious. Having a large network of people is always a great safety blanket when looking for internships or jobs. Maybe she knows someone who has an uncle who will give an internship on Wall Street to you because of your connection.
10. Being Fearless
Like everybody else, she is used to failure and rejection. She just handles it differently. Instead of pitying herself and taking time to mope about her problems, she has decided to face them with confidence. She knows that if she picks herself back up and keeps trying, everything will end up alright. All of her successes will make up for any mistakes, and she will not make a big deal out of it.
A college female in general should find a role model of the same gender with all of these characteristics and take note of how they do what they do and achieve what they achieve. A powerful collegiate woman possesses most, if not all, of these traits. As an incoming college student, catching on to these is key to becoming well rounded and successful during both their time in college and after graduation when it is time to get a job.
