I've Never Been One For Change, But I'm Working On It.

I've Never Been One For Change, But I'm Working On It.

Change is Hard

I've never been one for change.

It's so difficult. The uncertainty that change brings is near crippling for me. I like consistence. I find comfort in the comfortable and discomfort in the unfamiliar. And change is just that, unfamiliar.

I don't know where this fear of change began, but it's always present. Every opportunity, every unfamiliar road ahead is meticulously observed before taken. I'm never the one to jump head first into this unknown world of change. But rather, I've always found comfort in the known, in the consistence.

But, what I have begun to realize is this world is anything but consistent. The world we live in is constantly changing. Just as the seasons change and the trees shed their leaves in preparation for winter, this world changing and so does it's people. The world is not afraid to change, so why should I be? But more importantly, why should I be afraid of change and new beginnings when I serve a God who reminds me that change is apart of His perfect plan. For in Ecclesiastes 3:1 it says, "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens."

Whether I'm comfortable with change or not, it's inevitable and it's written in His plans for me. So, because of God's declaration that every season is perfectly planned by Him, I can find comfort. Because I believe in a Savior who promises that all change is apart of His plans, I am slowly learning to accept it. I'm learning that although change is unfamiliar, although it is full of uncertainty. Change can also lead to marvelous opportunities and beautiful roads that weren't always visible before.

I'm not completely comfortable with change, at least not yet and I may never fully be. But, I have begun to understand it. I've begun to understand that this world, this life I live will be full of changes. And when I feel uncomfortable, when I am consumed by the unknown, I can find comfort in the fact that every season of change is apart of His marvelous plan.

So, just as the trees understand the need to change in preparation for winter, I will change as God calls me too; to prepare myself for the new season of life, which He has planned.

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From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

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When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

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The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

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It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

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You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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