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The Cause And Effect Of Relationships

We all, have someone who has impacted our lives in awful or good ways.

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There are close to seven billion people in the world. That number defines that number of induvial who have unique personalities, unique abilities, strengths and personalities. These personalities come in many shapes and forms, the ability to hurt and change someone’s life forever.

A person to person contact is one of the most abused drugs in the world. We long to build the connection with one person, the ability to make that one person our other half, the ability to find someone who will listen but sometimes we need a friend.

It takes one person, a single person to change your mind about yourself , about your life and about everything that you see in yourself. It takes one person to flip your freshman year into something that seemed to be a disaster however you grow from.

I grew up into a better man, I grew up seeing that I needed to be a better man and I did.

I met someone my freshman year and I thought that, “Hey I met someone and we are close friends” but the extra people and the drama caused this friendship to fall apart. It took person to do to that to me, one person and three words that took me from being the most happiest person on earth to the person who thought that drugs are the only way out of this pain.

It took one person who made me think that everything in my life is not worth it and that everything in my life should end. One person and the paralyzing of “you’re psychotic.”

Someone who has gone through a lot in his past has every right to feel like he needs someone to lean on. He has every right to determine what should happen to his future and not let someone tell me that my future is nothing because of my past.

I lost a lot, I lost family members, myself and then myself again. It took someone to show me that my past doesn’t define who I am. This past is the smallest thing that has happened to me and the things that make the who we are better and stronger.

WE ALL

We all, have someone who has impacted our lives in awful or good ways. But it takes time to determine the actual outcome of what could happen. It takes see that one person has a lasting affect and that one person is the reason you changed for the best or for the worst.

It takes a lot for someone to see that he or she deserves the best but it also takes a lot to see that the affect that the person has on you wasn’t your fault it was the all what happened by chance and it will get better.

Getting Better

Remember that it will get better and that one person who was been the reason your cried had an affect for a reason.

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