Even when we are at our best, there are constantly people trying to tear us down. Whether it be out of spite, jealously, our just pure wickedness, some people cannot help but act petty. Like a certain pop artist, we all just have to accept that the “fakers gonna fake.” However, you do not have to let them stop you from being yourself. We can simply “shake it off!”
Step 1: Check yourself.
Before we start calling out all of the fake people surrounding you, you must ask yourself one thing. Are the people around me being fake or am I fake? Sometimes, we can lose sight of who we are and how to properly treat people. The first step on the road to recovery is acceptance. However, if you have checked yourself and realized that you have always been your genuine self, please proceed. For everyone else, proceed with caution.
Step 2: Sunglasses on.
The best way to block out fake people who are “clouding” your judgment is to remind them that everything is sunshine and rainbows in your world. They have no affect on you. To show them this, wear sunglasses everywhere. And I mean everywhere. Inside, outside, to bed, in the shower - everywhere.
Step 3: Headphones in.
What’s the best way to lift your own spirits? Listening to your favorite song! Plug in your headphones, blast your favorite music, and dance like nobody’s watching. Not only will you make yourself feel better, but now you can’t hear any of the nonsense around you. Everyone will see a person who does not care what other have to say about them. Make them think, “Why are they dancing in the middle of the street?”
Step 4: Talk it out.
As much fun as it is to put on our favorite pair of shades and dance around, this will only work for so long. We cannot passive-aggressively ignore our problems. Furthermore, we cannot pretend that nothing is wrong. Do not let people walk all over you. Sometimes, the problem could be coming from people who are supposed to be our friends. When that happens, it can be hard to address the problem openly. It’s okay to talk to your friends when you believe there is something wrong. It’s how we improve upon our friendships.
Step 5: See ya never!
Hopefully, after you’ve talked it out, the problem was fixed! If that’s true, this step won’t apply. However, even if you have addressed the problem and being are still being fake with you, you might have to consider another route. Everyone deserves a second chance. However, no one deserves more than that. It may be time to cut them out. You should not be around people who are hurting you. If they are not genuine, they do not deserve your genuine self. Don’t be around people that put you down, but rather people who lift you up.
Step 6: Surround yourself with positivity.
Even though there will always be fake people who seem to be stuck in a high-school-drama mindset, that shouldn’t stop you from living your life to the fullest. Surround yourself with friends and family that would never harm you. You need people who are honest with you, so you can be authentic with them. Do everything you love to do with them. Whether it be going out on a late night adventure or just watching movies all day, be with the people who make you happy.
