In the sorority world the big/little relationship is supposed to be amazing. You've found someone to take endless pictures with, a shoulder to cry on, your sorority life-line.

1. The process of choosing your little, and praying she chooses you, as well.

Often you hear of the big/little pairs who knew right away they were meant to be. The feeling is amazing, but it doesn't always happen. Sometimes you have to pray that your perfect little feels the same way and chooses you.

2. Getting the call you got the little of your dreams.

There is no better feeling in the world than receiving the call that you got matched with one of the amazing new members. You officially have your little and that is AMAZING.

3. Then the crafting begins.

The most stressful thing about receiving a little is crafting to make sure their big/little reveal is amazing and perfect for your family. Be prepared for the stress, but know your little will love everything you make for her (even if the Chevron paint isn't perfect).

4. You're stressed, you're covered in paint, but then your future little posts about how excited she is to get her big. And all is right in the world again.

5. Then big/little reveal is here and you know, ready or not, this is it.

You've crafted, you've dropped off surprises and have loaded up the baskets for reveal. The stress has gone away and you hope someone takes good candids of your first big/little hug.

6. Living happily ever after.

You've got your little and no matter what you will always be big/little. It is now acceptable to turn to her at 3 a.m. and have her ask you who she's hitting before you even say a word. From this point on you have found your person and everything is about to get so much better.