In life, we tend to take things for granted, always expecting things to stay the same without any effort. However, with a mindset like this, its hard for any friendship to make it through any change in life. Distance is one of the hardest to conquer--its usually what ends friendships when we think they aren't end-able. So take it to heart and hold on to what you have.

Because these good times may not last as long as you think. Keep all the good times sealed in air tight jar— for these are the moments we live for.

So to my old but good friends:

Hi, how are you doing?

I could ask you this but we would never have enough time to truly make up for missed time Im sure you’re doing well or hanging on in there.

Maybe it was the distance, maybe it was the timing or maybe it just wasn’t meant to last but for whatever reason, but I'm okay. I'm okay with how we are. It may break my heart a bit but I know that this is what reality is. I don’t need to talk to you everyday to know that you love me and for the love to be reciprocated. I hope you don’t turn bitter towards me or let any resentment grow because in my heart, I will always be there for you because you are my soft spot. Maybe thats why I was so easily replaceable; there was never a risk for you. I’d rescue you from any situation and maybe you abuse that, maybe thats why you left my life. But it's okay again, I hope things are well, it looks like everything is working in your favor. I’m going to let you go for now. I don’t blame you for us growing apart but I can't help but reminisce from time to time. But I wont let this hold me back from moving on and growing closer to my new friends. And I do miss you.

Forever caring,

Your used-to-be best friend

Sometimes its hard to let go of what was and accept what is. But once you accept your reality, you can finally live in it.