To My Best Friend Before Her Deployment

To My Best Friend Before Her Deployment

I love you.


Dear Daniella,

First and foremost I want to tell you that I'm proud of you. Sophomore year of high school you decided that you wanted to join the Navy, you did and you're doing great in it! I'm proud of you, because not only did you make a big decision and stick with it at such an early age, but you've been doing so well in it. You're an inspiration, and I'm lucky to even be able to call you my best friend.

We became friends when we were 10. While we weren't very close back then, once we went to high school we became inseparable. We wore the same clothes, held hands in the hallway, we were literally joined at the hip. You became my other half. Throughout the years you've taught me so many things, and if it wasn't for your friendship I wouldn't be the woman that I am today. The once shy and quiet girl I once was is gone because you brought me out of my shell. I can't thank you enough for that.

Even though we went two years without seeing each other, we kept in touch and when I saw you for the first time in two years everything felt just like it did before you left. We have so many great memories together and I will always cherish them. You've always been an amazing friend to me. When I needed to vent, you were my counselor. When life tossed me in every direction, and I was lost, you gave me directions. When I was down, you picked me up. I am blessed to have you in my life.

Good luck with your deployment. I know it will go great because you excel at everything you do. You never give up, and you have nerves of steel. I've always admired those things about you. You are one of the strongest people I know. Please be safe, and come back soon! I love you so much!


Your best friend Aaliyah

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I'm a war movie buff. I've seen most if not all the movies on this list ranging from old classics to modern box office hits. Some of these are hilarious and some are very serious and possibly disturbing. For this list, only true American Movies were picked because this Holiday is about remembering American Soldiers and Veterans.

1. Black Hawk Down

2. American Sniper

3. Kelly’s Heroes

4. Thin Red Line

5. Lone Survivor 

6. Fury

7. Casualties of War

8. Courage Under Fire

9. Catch 22

10. The Longest Day

11. Born on the Fourth of July

12. Good Morning, Vietnam

13. Platoon

14. The Dirty Dozen

15. Twelve O’clock High

16. Saving Private Ryan

17. The Messenger

18. The Deer Hunter

19. Top Gun

20. Full Metal Jacket

21. Zero Dark Thirty

22. Saints and Soldiers

23. Thank You For Your Service

24. A Few Good Men

25. Hurt Locker

26. We Were Soldiers

27. Men Of Honor

28. Tora!Tora!Tora!

29. Heartbreak Ridge

30. Sand Castle

31. Apocalypse Now

32. Flags of Our Fathers

33. Pearl Harbor

34. Saints and Soldiers: Airborne Crees

35. JarHead

36. Taking Chance

37. Platoon

Bonus TV Miniseries 1. Band of Brothers

Bonus TV Miniseries 2. The Pacific

Bonus TV Miniseries 3. Generation Kill

Have a Happy Memorial Day with friends and family and eat a burger for me and enjoy the good times and reflect on why this holiday is and maybe enjoy a movie or two or a few.

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