Being A New Atheist: Pros and Cons

Being A New Atheist: Pros and Cons

I usually end my articles here with some sort of conclusion, but I don't have one for this topic.

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A couple of weeks ago someone asked me why I was an atheist, and the words were out of my mouth before I had given them much thought:

"Well, look around…"

I wasn't paying the conversation much attention, but I have given these words a lot of thought since. I realized that they are the most sincere reason why I don't believe in something other than science to explain life.

What I meant with this frank and borderline rude answer was that I don't see any evidence of a higher power, and thus I don't believe in one. I was raised Catholic, so this wasn't always laid out this simple in my head as it is today, and honestly, it took me a while to fully come to terms with really believing in nothing. I took a class freshmen year about religion, and my professor always said that what makes people believe in something is having some sort of evidence that it works. It seems safe to assume then that people stop believing in something if they have various examples of this something not working.

I like doing things that produce solid, palpable results, and in a way, this is what most motivates me to do something, whether it be schoolwork or a personal project. Following this mindset, praying has never produced any results for me, but rather, produced a number of examples of cases in which I went to a higher power for help and wasn't helped, or in other words, produced various examples of prayer not working. Having my prayers not answered deeply impacted me, and were the beginning of a turning point in my beliefs.

But the "look around" part of my comment is more directed towards my thoughts after reflecting on my own prayers. Suddenly, I couldn't accept the fact that God could coexist with the great amount of poverty and crime that exists in the world. I remember talking to an atheist friend about this, and she told me that if a God exists and watches the terrible things that happen in the world, she has no interest in worshipping or talking with this God. The more I thought about it, the more I agreed with her. It took me about two years to really come to terms with this being the way that I thought, but accepting this atheist mindset has been surprisingly liberating.

A negative consequence of accepting this change in my beliefs though, is that now I find it hard to understand people who whole-heartedly believe in a higher power, whether this is God or Karma or something else. It is so obvious in my perspective that there isn't anything out there, that I find myself giving blunt and ironic contributions to conversations about religion, and often have to hold myself back and not be too in order to be respectful. It is almost as if I forgot what it was like to believe in a higher power, as if I hadn't been raised Catholic and have a mostly Catholic family. Christmas is still my favorite holiday, and even though I spent Good Friday away from home I didn't eat any meat.

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I'm The College Girl Who Likes Trump And Hates Feminism, And Living On A Liberal Campus Is Terrifying

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.

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I will get right to the point: being a conservative on a liberal college campus in 2019 downright terrifying.

At my university, I'm sure about 90% of the population, both students and faculty, are liberals. They are very outspoken, never afraid to express their views, opinions, and feelings in several ways. There are pride events for the LGBT community, a huge celebration for MLK day, and tons of events for feminists.

Then there's the minority: the conservatives. The realists. The "racists," "bigots," and "the heartless." I am everything the liberals absolutely despise.

I like Donald Trump because he puts America first and is actually getting things done. He wants to make our country a better place.

I want a wall to keep illegals out because I want my loved ones and me to be safe from any possible danger. As for those who are genuinely coming here for a better life, JUST FILL OUT THE PAPERWORK INSTEAD OF SNEAKING AROUND.

I'm pro-life; killing an infant at nine months is inhumane to me (and yet liberals say it's inhumane to keep illegals out…but let's not get into that right now).

I hate feminism. Why? Because modern feminism isn't even feminism. Slandering the male species and wanting to take down the patriarchy is just ridiculous.

I hate the media. I don't trust anyone in it. I think they are all biased, pathological liars. They purposely make our president look like the devil himself, leaving out anything good he does.

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.

I mostly keep my opinions to myself out of fear. When I end up getting one of my "twisted" and "uneducated" thoughts slip out, I cringe, waiting for the slap in the face.

Don't get me wrong; not everyone at my university is hostile to those who think differently than they do.

I've shared my opinions with some liberal students and professors before, and there was no bloodshed. Sure, we may not see eye to eye, but that's okay. That just means we can understand each other a little better.

Even though the handful of students and faculty I've talked to were able to swallow my opinions, I'm still overwhelmed by the thousands of other people on campus who may not be as kind and attentive. But you can't please everybody. That's just life.

Your school is supposed to be a safe environment where you can be yourself. Just because I think differently than the vast majority of my peers doesn't mean I deserve to be a target for ridicule. No one conservative does. Scratch that, NO ONE DOES.

I don't think I'll ever feel safe.

Not just on campus, but anywhere. This world is a cruel place. All I can do is stand firm in my beliefs and try to tolerate and listen to the clashing opinions of others. What else can I do?

All I can say is... listen. Be nice. Be respectful of other's opinions, even if you strongly disagree. Besides, we all do have one thing in common: the desire for a better country.

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Dear Young Voices Of America, Stand Up, Speak Up, And Do Something

Our time is now.

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Dear young voices of America, I think we can both agree that we are sick of being told we are America's future while simultaneously being told our opinions don't matter. Now I personally do not listen to the people that tell me I'm better seen than heard; however, I know there are people that are a little timider when it comes to raising their voices. I am here to encourage you to be loud and speak up on topics that matter to you. There is no better time than the present to make your voice heard. Whether you are advocating for change in your school or the government, your opinion matters and is relevant.

We are the future of our country. How are we supposed to evoke change and reform if we can't have our voices heard? I call bullshit and I think it's time to take action. Even if you're the first or only person to advocate for your cause, be that person. Don't be afraid of anyone that tries to stand in your way. The only person that can stop you from speaking up for yourself and your cause is you. No matter how many nos you have to hear to get a yes or how many doors you have to knock on to get someone to open up, never give up. Never give up on your cause, never give up on yourself or the people you're representing, just don't do it. There is someone out there that supports you. Maybe they're just too shy to raise their voice too. Be encouraging and be supportive and get people to take a stand with you.

It is never too early or too late to start thinking about your future or to take action. But don't hesitate to say something. The sooner you start speaking up, the sooner you have people joining you and helping you, and the sooner you start to see and experience change. So get up, make that sign, write that letter, make that phone call, take part in that march, give that speech. Do whatever you feel fit to get your point across. Shout it from the rooftops, write it on your profile, send it in a letter, ignore everyone that tries to tell you to give up. Maybe they don't understand now, maybe they don't want to listen, maybe they're afraid to listen, but the more you talk about it and help them understand what exactly you are trying to get across, they will join you.

Even when it feels like you have nobody on your side but yourself, I am on your side. I will cheer you on, I will march with you hand in hand, I will write letters and make phone calls and help you find your voice. My life changed when I found my voice and yours will too.

So dear young voices of America, the time is now. Your time is now. Don't be afraid of the obstacles that you may have to face. Someone is out there waiting for you, waiting to grab your hand and march on with you. As Tarana Burke once said "Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something."

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