So here is the part two of Lolita’s behind the burn. This is where some of our worst tendencies come. I have done some more digging around to show that not everything is perfect in the lolita fashion world, even though it is all about looking like we came from a fairytale. All the same we are all human with our flaws and all. And yes, I am ready as always to take whatever criticism I may receive for writing about this. All, the same I hope this article can be entertaining and make you think about why we do some of the things we do to
#1 So to start us off we have ways in which we like to tease each other about what we have sometimes.
#2 The squabbles we have over girls trying to be dominant or have the all the attention. Trust me I know this fashion can bring on all kinds of emotions. Especially since it takes a certain amount of confidence and/or nerve to wear it in public. However, we do have some girls who do a little extra to get attention. Like all of us sometimes. Come on all we know at one point or another we want all the admiring attention. It is totally natural.
#3 Sometimes people can be downright mean and express their dislike for some lolita’s that just get on their nerves for some reason. But, hey not everyone is going to like each other and thus that is why this controversial website has been created. 
#4 This come on girls, Lolita fashion can not be ruined for you only if you let it be. 
#5 We can even be kind of mean about how girls look in their dresses. If they don’t look like their outfit is not put together well then yes they will be a target of this kind of bullying. Then we also have the not so great positioning of how some of the girls are posing.
#6 Then we again show how nit picky we are with the details of the fashion again even with the simplest of things.
#8 We still have ways of bullying that do need to be addressed out in the open and in public even if that means a lot of us are going to be uncomfortable.
#9 Another example of how we should just talk to each other about what we may or may not like about others make-up or outfit. Whatever the case maybe.
#10 And finally….
I think number ten definitely brings up some really important points in their comment. Behind the Bows can be funny as heck with the memes sometimes but, can also be downright degrading. However, in this country, we do have the freedom of speech to say such things about one another even if it is hurtful. Trust me, everyone in the lolita community has their issues with a few other lolitas that they may not be partial too. I am probably not like by other lolitas just because I am awkward af and even I may not like other lolitas for one reason or another. It’s just within our human nature. We're not going to like everyone we meet. So that is where Behind the Bows comes in to voice our vices. This is a part of the conundrum that we all as humanity live in; high emotional tension. Even in a fantasy fashion is going to have it's issues from time to time.
My question to you lolita's out there reading this is: Where would you draw the line on a website like this or any other that has gossip?
