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Beauty Is In The Eyes Of The Beholder

I Praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made and I know that full well

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Beauty Is In The Eyes Of The Beholder
Hayleigh Smith

Dear Judgemental Sicotey,

Every once in awhile everyone has to be reminded that We Have Been Fearfully and wonderfully made and there is no true measure of beauty in the World that Actually Defines how Beautiful you are... This Society tries to get us to cover up all of our flaws with Makeup but Make up does not define your True Beauty or Your Value because you can only find Your Own Kind of Beautiful not only on the inside but the outside and Always remember that your Value is not defined by the way Society views you.. I Completely understand that This world is Very Judgemental and because of that Judgement Many Girls look at their self's in the mirror every morning and don't Value themselves or even Love themselves. Don't Worry Ive been through this Way too many times So I Hope you realize that your not Alone in this. We maybe differently abled but understand that everybody has somthing that is different about them and you may have things about yourself that you just don't like about yourself but at least you have been given the opportunity to grow into a strong girl. Because I'm Sure at Some point you thought about your beauty and you've probably compared it to how Sicotey views you I know that I have and I can say that I was one of those girls who struggles with this. The Crazy thing about how Sicotey views us is that they want us to think that we need to be Smaller than the next girl. Well the problem with this is that some people just take this as a challenge to prove that they are worth it. And we take this way Sicotey views us way too far and than it leads to felling more insecure about ourselves and our value. Sicotey do you realize how much you have Done because of your So called " Perfect Models Because of your Constant reminder of your own definition of " Beauty" Little do you know your crazy Extreme Diets and your "Fake" Models Make us feel like we need to change to fit in with those who are "Skinny" and those who look like Barbie dolls. Well apparently you think it's okay to downgrade Every Girl that sees your pictures of those so called perfect girls. Well let me speak my mind because no one no matter who they are or who they aren't needs to Change in anyway. But Thanks to Sicotey we Try to hard to meet your standards and sometimes it's just easier to hide behind our Flaws. Well because of the way Sicotey views us we take it all too far way to often. Which can lead to major self esteem issues and without can come disorders and Excessive Diets.

So Thank you Society for bringing us down to ruin our self image and Self esteem because of you our lives will never be the same because of you my Self confidence hasn't always been the best but neither has my self image and my worth but I know that it's not meant to be perfect but Why do you make us believe that we have to be perfect to be of value.

We live in a “touched up” world. The Dove Campaign is beginning to show how much touch up work goes into the average photo you see on the newsstand, billboard, or internet. What you see is no longer what you get. We are surrounded by a made-up and make believe world that tells us beauty is basically unattainable unless you starve yourself. That is not how God views us. God sees us as beautiful because that is how he made everyone of us.

He thinks we are beautiful. But not just on the outside. Society dwells on outward beauty because they do not realize what inward beauty can be. God thinks you are beautiful but not just because of how he made your outside. Even moreso God sees you as beautiful because of how he made you inside.  I Don't Care What you Think of me anymore because your opinion of me is Nothing compared to What God Thinks of me and I hope you know that Some people out there just Choose to tell me stupid things than I started to believe them just so they can try to tear me down to my lowest and because of that I can say that I've been struggling through some things because of peoples opinions of me Well I'm not taking your Criticism anymore because you know what I maybe short and a might not be a perfect skinny Girl and I'm definitely not the one who needs to be perfect I may have a Disability but sometimes I choose to compete with the those who are smaller than me and that's exactly what I've been doing for the last few months but I finally realize that I Just need to be stronger than any temptations that could ever come my way Yes I have a lot to do to get myself on my feet again but it's Definitely going to be Worth it but Everything no matter what it is takes time because nothing can always be built in a day So I Guess what I'm saying is that I would rather have you push me to be better instead of you pushing me to be less than what I'm worth and I'm worth more than many sparrows and I am Fearfully and wonderfully made and I can say those 2 sentences with All the Confidence in the World Because God Says So.... I Know What your thinking you are probably thinking am I ever going to Stop Writing this and the answer is Simple not until I get my point across I'm sorry but please keep reading....

And Just Understand that your opinion Can Cause more Hurt Than you will ever realize Expessaily when you tell someone that they can't do something that they actually Love... Well apparently people in this world like to see someone else suffer because of their words and the person who has been Going through hard things because of peoples opinions well that person is me so all I can thank you Society for bringing me down to my lowest so that I can come back even Tougher and Stronger than I was before you choose to bring me down so Thank you for making me stronger.

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